My son had surgery today for a collapsed lung. They ended up removing part of it. To watch someone you love so much go through so many emotions and pain throughout the day is devastating. Sometimes I forget how much I love that boy. I'm not sure I could have done as well as him when I was 18. Please send him nice thoughts. He's a great guy. frown
His family won't call or visit except his mom, best friend, and me. His grandparents live 1/2 mile from the hospital and won't show him any love. None of his extended family. The kid just went through the hardest thing in his life and he got no support. Has one balloon in his room his mom bought. It hurts his feelings so badly, but he won't say anything. Unfortunately, my family isn't very close and he never got to know any of them. But he's spent his entire life with my ex's family. I'm so disappointed but realize hate only hurts me. I'm trying to get that point across to him without really coming out and saying it.
Anyway folks, thanks for listening. I'm a loner and don't have many friends, and really needed to say this for my own peace of mind so I can be strong for him. Love to all.
His family won't call or visit except his mom, best friend, and me. His grandparents live 1/2 mile from the hospital and won't show him any love. None of his extended family. The kid just went through the hardest thing in his life and he got no support. Has one balloon in his room his mom bought. It hurts his feelings so badly, but he won't say anything. Unfortunately, my family isn't very close and he never got to know any of them. But he's spent his entire life with my ex's family. I'm so disappointed but realize hate only hurts me. I'm trying to get that point across to him without really coming out and saying it.
Anyway folks, thanks for listening. I'm a loner and don't have many friends, and really needed to say this for my own peace of mind so I can be strong for him. Love to all.