blackheart13

you may be on to something with that theory ...keep me posted i am as curious as you are to figure my weird ass sex out as well

I don't like to speak for all women, because quite often, I try as hard as i can to dissociate from all women, but I think when a women acts like she is in a relationship when she isn't, it is most often her only defense. Some crazy stalker guy could come up to her and try to hook up, and if she says she has a boyfriend its like she has her own personal guardian angel or some shit. Of course, if she says it to you, (you NOT being a crazy stalker and all) it could mean a few things:

A: She might be interested, but she's not sure, so she's playing it safe to keep guys from heckling her.
B: She's a nutjob, and hears voices in head
C: Shes not interested
D: Maybe your information about whether or not she had a boyfriend is flawed, or your perception that she is trying to make it seem as though she has one is inaccurate
E: She's testing you to see if you would persue a relationship with her even if she led you to believe that she was already in one, whereby, if you did persue her, she would say you were scum, because if you cant respect her imaginary relationship with John Doe, how can she expect you to respect YOUR relationhip with HER, and when you counteract by saying she is a manipulative lying whore, and shouldn't play mind games on people, you two would either fuck like rabbits for hours and live happily ever after, or become mortal enemies for the rest of your lives. or, if you didn't persue her.... maybe she'd figure you weren't attracted to her, her self esteem would take a permanent drop, and then she would curse you for not finding her irresistable, thereby ruining her life. Then maybe she would sue you for emotional damage.


those are the only reasons i can think of. I don't know why you bring this up, so hopefully i havent caused you serious irreperable damage. ha. If anyone else has another explanation.. feel free to comment.


[Edited on Feb 09, 2005 1:04AM]