bionicfemme

You're being silly, beautiful. We don't all fall into categories. I sure as fuck don't. That's why I love SuicideGirls, seriously, haha, because I never much got hit on by hot chicks until I was on here, yeeehaw! Irregardless, I think we should go out sometime and hook you up with someone rad. I can be the other woman that makes everyone jealous enough to hit on you. I totally understand what you are saying about why be gay if the perks aren't there. I've often thought I would've been if the perks were.

Your problem is just your self-esteem. And yes, the SF dyke scene is a certain way as well. And maybe you just have to take it slow... slow... I think with less selection, there are less returns perhaps. I cannot tell you all the many long hours I contemplated dropping men only to realize I'd just wind up alone myself.

My main concern though is how you categorize yourself. There is no point to it. Some of us are just sort of weird. I make zero sense either. It's okay. Just maintain your radiant level of who you are and let yourself shine, and be a fucking diva, be above everyone, and you will have them licking your toes.

First of all. You need to determine your goal, if you haven't already. What do you want? Do you want a LTR? Or what. Second thing to keep in your head... make a list even... what do you HOPE for in a woman? (column A) and (column B) what do you not find attractive or acceptible. There, now don't forget it when you go out. Know who you are going for. But don't go straight for the jugular, hold back some, if you were a man I'd give you different advice, but I think if you don't want to be used for sex, you need to warm into a relationship with someone slowly... really getting to know them first... women are often tempted to sleep with each other quickly just because you're like, holy fuck there's a totally hot naked chick in my bed. But resist.... as best as you can.