billesty

I recently read a blog on this site where the person was so unhappy with their current state of life and their relationship with their boyfriend that they contemplated suicide as an option for final happiness.

This really bothered me and got me to thinking....how do you feel, I mean really feel, about the person you're with?? Do they really give you what you want and need? Not just in terms of material things but moreso emotional. If your answer to this question is "no" then I suggest the following:

Don't stay in a relationship that doesn't make you happy just because you feel comfortible or that is just okay. If the person you're with doesn't fill your needs then dump them and move on. Afterall YOUR happiness is and should be the most important thing to yourself. Although it may be difficult, just do yourself a favor...get rid of what's bringing you down. Each and every one of you deserve better. There's no excuse to stay with someone who doesn't give you what you need.

The metal of a man makes the man. It's not what he can provide for you it's what he can really give you that matters!