bettybruises

Right now I am learning how to not be in charge.
At work and in my new officiating crew, which is not as strong as the one I left, has some good people, who just need a lot of training, and reminding myself that it's not my job to do that, knowing I'm the new kid and unless someone asks specifically for my input and help, I need to just let them fuck up on their own...not easy for me.

But I think it's a good lesson, walking into work and being trained by someone who I could help to make their job easier, walking into a league with officials who I know I can help, but knowing it's not my job...

These are good, but challenging things for me...