So i'm back, apparently my account was still active for the past while and I never even realized it until I got a message saying it was closed. Its been a long crazy few years. Got married, had 2 kids, wife decided to cheat on me and leave me for her first ever bf and start acting like a teenager again all of a sudden. (long story), So now that she's not with me to be offended and judgmental about me being back on here I'm back!!!!! Mostly divorced, things arent final by any means, including custody, but if anyone takes into account actions and who is responsible for the kids I should get custody. I'm pushing for it. I feel so strange being single again, I honestly dont like it so much, I'm working nights and taking care of the boys full time as it is, so its not like I can get out much to meet people, so not sure how i'll manage something but i'll get there. Most of my contact info has changed, anyone who wants it is welcome to it, just let me know. I guess its time to start being social again and make some more friends as most of what i had got alienated during the split. I'm glad to be back with all you wonderful, beautiful people. I missed you all