please, gentlemen of the species, indulge me in some very important research.
question: concisely as possible, please describe your thoughts on girls who put out on the first date. what kind of "message" does it send to you? are they trampy, or are they liberated and empowered? are you more or less likely to call them again? if so, would you call for a date, or just for more sex?
i would also be delighted to hear what girls think about this, for i suspect that the widely reigning view on this topic involves some fundamental gender biases.
hoping to be proven wrong,
bb
question: concisely as possible, please describe your thoughts on girls who put out on the first date. what kind of "message" does it send to you? are they trampy, or are they liberated and empowered? are you more or less likely to call them again? if so, would you call for a date, or just for more sex?
i would also be delighted to hear what girls think about this, for i suspect that the widely reigning view on this topic involves some fundamental gender biases.
hoping to be proven wrong,
bb
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On the other hand, if she doesnt return your e-mail and pphone call within a day, then you go nuts from missing her and what did you do wrong.
The 2 best outcomes are that you are a pair of co-dependents looking to rush into something serious, or else 2 bona fide swingers who will then part friends.
The problem is... the rest of the getting to know you part for the rest of us then becomes sort of anti-climactic. Like coming in to a movie at the climax, then sitting around for the first half to find out what happened.