Alright, this just sucks.
Ladies, lets say you love a guy and been with him for awhile, meaning like 5 years, but things aren't working out because he's havin a bad moment in his life, problems with work, or maybe loosing work, family shit other crap that sucks and can put a strain on a relationship. Lets say it gets bad enough you're done with it, want out, love the guy alot, but just can't deal with it right now, you need to get your life going. So you leave, move on, get your own place, start new job, things are going good, meet a new guy, awesome.
Please don't call up Ex dude and ask how he's doin, tell him your life kicks ass now, you miss him and would consider starting over now that you both have things moving in a good direction, except that you can't because.... oh yah, you have a new dude. It's mean, and it sucks.
Not saying dudes don't do this, they totally do, in fact alot of dudes do this, most of them are douche bags, most guys are douche bags. Fuck em, leave them to be douchey. But there aren't too many dudes out there that don't suck and have and show emotions, if you have one you know it. The kind of guy that really does listen and give a shit about your day. The kind of guy that wouldn't be an asshole and bail on you when your mom has cancer. Or even just the kinda guy that wouldn't do this to you. If you get one, please don't do this, it really sucks.
Just sayin
Ladies, lets say you love a guy and been with him for awhile, meaning like 5 years, but things aren't working out because he's havin a bad moment in his life, problems with work, or maybe loosing work, family shit other crap that sucks and can put a strain on a relationship. Lets say it gets bad enough you're done with it, want out, love the guy alot, but just can't deal with it right now, you need to get your life going. So you leave, move on, get your own place, start new job, things are going good, meet a new guy, awesome.
Please don't call up Ex dude and ask how he's doin, tell him your life kicks ass now, you miss him and would consider starting over now that you both have things moving in a good direction, except that you can't because.... oh yah, you have a new dude. It's mean, and it sucks.
Not saying dudes don't do this, they totally do, in fact alot of dudes do this, most of them are douche bags, most guys are douche bags. Fuck em, leave them to be douchey. But there aren't too many dudes out there that don't suck and have and show emotions, if you have one you know it. The kind of guy that really does listen and give a shit about your day. The kind of guy that wouldn't be an asshole and bail on you when your mom has cancer. Or even just the kinda guy that wouldn't do this to you. If you get one, please don't do this, it really sucks.
Just sayin