I have been a nervous wreck all morning because my ex, his mom and grandma were supposed to visit today. Now I'm fine with Grandma and Great Grandma visiting Caiden. But his dad and I are still having issues. Like he doesn't seem to understand why he should help support him. Originally because of his attitude towards me I wasn't going to let him come, but I decided yesterday to tell him if he could be nice while he was here and give me $100 for Caiden so I could get him some clothes and a highchair then he could come. So he agreed and then he tried to talk me into a lesser highchair and then he never showed up even though his Mom text messaged him. Caiden will be 4 months in 9 days and his father has only ever seen 2 pictures of him. He says he doesn't have time to look at the ones I email his Mom. I think even she is disappointed in him. But I'm standing firm until he can do those two things he has no business in my home. It's rather obvious he doesn't really want to see him anyway he just wants to try and make me miserable. Anyway thanks to him being a deadbeat we had a nice visit with both Grandma's and Great Grandma. All in all it turned out nicely.
