I had to drive 35+ miles today to have a paternity test done on Caiden. Why? you might ask... because the bastard is a lazy fuck! All he had to do was fill out his paperwork and mail it back, but could he do that? No no he couldn't.
One of the main reasons I left him was because of his wife. I know it's terrible they were still married, but they'd been separated for over a year and supposedly in the middle of a divorce. By the way he never did tell me he was still married, his brother did awhile after we were dating/engaged. Lovely no? Anyway he had told me once he still loved her. which I kind of understood. They had 4+ years together and shared two daughters so I let it go. But one day on the way home from his mothers he says to me "You're upset because I love her aren't you?" Honestly I hadn't thought about. But then I started to. He had just spent the last of our money for a week to go meet with her and her lawyer and got nowhere by the way. We had barely any food, barely gas to get to town after this and so many other issues. He told me he could never forgive her because she'd kept their children from him the whole time they'd been separated. Guess who he is living with now?
Okay I'm done....
One of the main reasons I left him was because of his wife. I know it's terrible they were still married, but they'd been separated for over a year and supposedly in the middle of a divorce. By the way he never did tell me he was still married, his brother did awhile after we were dating/engaged. Lovely no? Anyway he had told me once he still loved her. which I kind of understood. They had 4+ years together and shared two daughters so I let it go. But one day on the way home from his mothers he says to me "You're upset because I love her aren't you?" Honestly I hadn't thought about. But then I started to. He had just spent the last of our money for a week to go meet with her and her lawyer and got nowhere by the way. We had barely any food, barely gas to get to town after this and so many other issues. He told me he could never forgive her because she'd kept their children from him the whole time they'd been separated. Guess who he is living with now?
Okay I'm done....
luciefurr:
Jesus I don't even know what to say. :hugs: