badronald

The kissing thing IS very personal, but the Idiot Boy and I had been dating for a while, then I told him my boyfriend was my boyfriend, and he removed himself from the situation because he couldn't handle it. Then we went out for dinner more recently, and that's what happened. So it's not like he's a stranger, he's just crazy. I told him all along that I was seeing other people, and he never had issues with kissing me before, but now that I have a boyfriend, apparently it's up to the boyfriend to kiss me, and he just gets the benefits of my blowjobs? Sorry, no, that ain't how it works.

Maybe, but it wasn't really that I chose the other guy, it's more like he made more effort than Guy #1 and scored the bonus point of getting to be my Boyfriend. I would've still gone out with Guy #1 if he hadn't purposely removed himself from the situation, trying to play the martyr, and nothing really would have changed. But when he fucked off, things DID change, having more time to spend with Boyfriend, and when Guy #1 and I went out again, it wasn't weird, but I asked him what he wanted, and he didn't say he wanted to date me, or that he wanted to be my boyfriend, or anything like that. He said that he couldn't help it, when I was around he had to touch me, etc. etc. Basically, he just wants to fuck me. Fucking without love is pointless to me. That doesn't mean you have to be IN LOVE with the person, but you should at least care about them, and if you care about somebody, then you won't treat them like a sex toy (well, unless it's one of those mutually-agreed-upon kinds of things). When you tell someone that they're "so cold," but you don't ever bother to share things with them (even when asked, point blank), I call bullshit.