Happy Valentines' Day! ;P I hope that all of you are well 
Interesting (I use the term loosely) titbit: this is my first Valentines Day as a single lady in 8 years - the last time I was in this position was when I was 15 years old!
But you know what, I'm ok with it. Right now I don't want to be with my ex and I don't want to be with anyone else either. I'm okay with being on my own for a while. I did love how my friend asked me how I was enjoying single life yesterday and I had to point out that I've only been single since Friday (and I'd spent the weekend at work and then home
) so I wasn't in a position to judge any time soon
There's a very popular blogger called Gala Darling who proclaims the merits of self-love and - despite being married herself - she suggests that Valentine's day should be a day of self love (cue masturbation jokes). So I am going to spend much of the day coming up with goals, dreams, and aspirations for myself, and having a good think about who I really am - for the first time in a very long time I am not one half of "Roxy and Y/Z", I'm just Roxy, so I need to have a think what that means for me in a very real sense.
...I sound like a self-help book. And also a twat. At any rate, that's what I'm doing today. And eating cupcakes. And baking.... And eating what I've baked 
On the life front, things have been interesting enough: I worked Saturday and Sunday in the day (as usual), on Saturday night my best friend and his awesome girlfriend came over to look after me (and he couldn't keep his mouth shut about how much he never liked my ex), while Sunday night was a chilled out affair: me and my Grandma hung out watching Sunday night TV in front of the fire while eating various leftover home-made cakes
Last night, four of my awesome friends and I went to the cinema to see the new Muppets film - I loved it!
OK it wasn't as good as Christmas Carol or Treasure Island (which is one of my favourite films of all time) but it's still incredibly enjoyable - and we got all overexcited at the cameos And because I was seeing her for the first time since before Xmas, my best friend gave me my Xmas presents - and one of them was A NEW PANDA!!
Also: yes those are panda ears. No Im not drunk. Yes Im high on sugar. No Im not sorry.
Anyway, I do ramble on: What about you guys? Have you had a good weekend? And what are your plans for Valentine's Day?
Interesting (I use the term loosely) titbit: this is my first Valentines Day as a single lady in 8 years - the last time I was in this position was when I was 15 years old!
But you know what, I'm ok with it. Right now I don't want to be with my ex and I don't want to be with anyone else either. I'm okay with being on my own for a while. I did love how my friend asked me how I was enjoying single life yesterday and I had to point out that I've only been single since Friday (and I'd spent the weekend at work and then home
) so I wasn't in a position to judge any time soon
There's a very popular blogger called Gala Darling who proclaims the merits of self-love and - despite being married herself - she suggests that Valentine's day should be a day of self love (cue masturbation jokes
). So I am going to spend much of the day coming up with goals, dreams, and aspirations for myself, and having a good think about who I really am - for the first time in a very long time I am not one half of "Roxy and Y/Z", I'm just Roxy, so I need to have a think what that means for me in a very real sense.
...I sound like a self-help book. And also a twat.
At any rate, that's what I'm doing today. And eating cupcakes. And baking.... And eating what I've baked
On the life front, things have been interesting enough: I worked Saturday and Sunday in the day (as usual), on Saturday night my best friend and his awesome girlfriend came over to look after me (and he couldn't keep his mouth shut about how much he never liked my ex
), while Sunday night was a chilled out affair: me and my Grandma hung out watching Sunday night TV in front of the fire while eating various leftover home-made cakes
Last night, four of my awesome friends and I went to the cinema to see the new Muppets film - I loved it!
OK it wasn't as good as Christmas Carol or Treasure Island (which is one of my favourite films of all time) but it's still incredibly enjoyable - and we got all overexcited at the cameos And because I was seeing her for the first time since before Xmas, my best friend gave me my Xmas presents - and one of them was A NEW PANDA!!
Also: yes those are panda ears. No Im not drunk. Yes Im high on sugar. No Im not sorry.
Anyway, I do ramble on: What about you guys? Have you had a good weekend? And what are your plans for Valentine's Day?
tactical:
You'll be alright, spoil yourself today