OK so I told fancy face that I can't do meaningless, that it was just not me and that I was sorry that I led him to believe otherwise. His retort was "OK woman", gee how elaborate and then I got " Are you stressed about last night because you think that I am stressed?" Not sure what he means by stressed, can a man reading this please fucking decipher?????
I then chose to be completely straight forward and I said the following as I hate pussy footing around things!! I said " I am beginning to like you which I can't afford to do as not only are you anti relationships but I also have to focus on my career right now. The fact that you are unavailable makes you more desirable as I always go for men with issues in that way I avoid intimacy which scares the living shit out of me, so it's not you it's me, not good at these things."
Later on he wanted to know what I was up to and I grilled him a little more about me knowing what I want and who I am and I only take calculated risks, blah! blah! blah! So he responded by saying that he is not stressed ( again the word stressed, huh??) and that I shouldn't worry, I am not worried about how he feels, I am worried about how I feel!!!
Then first thing this morning he calls??
I don't think offering friendship was a good idea
We have crossed that line that friends should never cross and I can just see this whole thing ending up going very fucken pair shaped!
What the fuck am I doing???
Any suggestions people???
I then chose to be completely straight forward and I said the following as I hate pussy footing around things!! I said " I am beginning to like you which I can't afford to do as not only are you anti relationships but I also have to focus on my career right now. The fact that you are unavailable makes you more desirable as I always go for men with issues in that way I avoid intimacy which scares the living shit out of me, so it's not you it's me, not good at these things."
Later on he wanted to know what I was up to and I grilled him a little more about me knowing what I want and who I am and I only take calculated risks, blah! blah! blah! So he responded by saying that he is not stressed ( again the word stressed, huh??) and that I shouldn't worry, I am not worried about how he feels, I am worried about how I feel!!!
Then first thing this morning he calls??
I don't think offering friendship was a good idea
We have crossed that line that friends should never cross and I can just see this whole thing ending up going very fucken pair shaped!
What the fuck am I doing???
Any suggestions people???
But things will turn out all right in the end, they always do.
thanks
stressed is another word for not to worry, so i think he means he dont give a shit and it doesnt bother him by what you said
my suggestion to you, do the friends thing but under no cercumstances (sp) do any physical things with him and if he doesnt like it he will dissapear