When it comes to relationships, long term, committed, what is more important?
Happiness?
Or love?
What do you do when you don't have both anymore?
For example, if you find yourself still madly in love with your partner, but no longer truly Happy..
And you have frequently brought up your feelings, and nothing has changed..
what are you supposed to?
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kalani_:
I feel like when you’re in love there is happiness already there. & when you are happy there is love vice versa. When you don’t have either, or as you said, when you’re madly in love but not happy. I think it’s important to assess why you aren’t happy. What factors are causing you to be unhappy in the first place? If you’ve already went to your partner, brought up the reasons/your feelings & nothing has changed, I would do so one last time. Or maybe just a couple. & then I’m afraid move on! You can truly love someone sooooo much, but if they aren’t contributing to your happiness, & you’ve actually went to them with this, then you can’t change said person :/
awoolard92:
@kalani_ that makes total sense, I guess I just needed to see outside perspectives to assure myself I'm not batshit crazy.