Hello,
Ok, so I've been thinking about my *ahem* love situation.
I think I'm over her. I *THINK* I am.
Here's my question to you lot, being that most of you have been in love more then I have.
Now before I ask this question I will restate the situation to that those of you who don't know can help too.
I fell in love with a girl I met on my birthday last year. I dated her for a month and had a lot of *firsts* with her. shortly after we got together she called me on the phone (christmas eve) and told me that she was cheating on her boyfriend with me. I accepted it and wanted to work things out- because I was in love.
She ended up dumping him and... after which, avoiding me as well. I never gave up. she didnt speak to me for a month, but I waited, then we hung out again for another month. now shes run off again.
Im tore up over this still.
***The Question***
Why is it that I'm so hurt by this?
Why is it three months later and I can't move on?
Why am I the one who feels guilty? is this normal?
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Thanks for your help,
Aut
Ok, so I've been thinking about my *ahem* love situation.
I think I'm over her. I *THINK* I am.
Here's my question to you lot, being that most of you have been in love more then I have.
Now before I ask this question I will restate the situation to that those of you who don't know can help too.
I fell in love with a girl I met on my birthday last year. I dated her for a month and had a lot of *firsts* with her. shortly after we got together she called me on the phone (christmas eve) and told me that she was cheating on her boyfriend with me. I accepted it and wanted to work things out- because I was in love.
She ended up dumping him and... after which, avoiding me as well. I never gave up. she didnt speak to me for a month, but I waited, then we hung out again for another month. now shes run off again.
Im tore up over this still.
***The Question***
Why is it that I'm so hurt by this?
Why is it three months later and I can't move on?
Why am I the one who feels guilty? is this normal?
*****************
Thanks for your help,
Aut
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it's been a year since my ex and i initially broke up- the worst of it is over but it still hurts sometimes and sometimes i can't stop thinking about him. i've been trying to move on but it's very difficult.
i don't know a lot about the psychology of relationships, but i'm sure that there's lots of possible reasons why you'd feel guilty, and it's totally normal.
everybody handles these things differently- some people can cope better than others.
[Edited on Apr 04, 2004 3:11PM]