last night before dinner i was smoking a joint with my new girlfriend on my balcony ... and i mentioned we had missed the gala in toronto. suddenly she was bashing the site, the girls and it felt like me as well for liking both the girls AND the site (groups, etc).
being me, i just kinda stood there thinking 'wtf' and defending both. the 'argument' was irrational so i didn't try to participate. after i cooked dinner and we ate, she still hadn't said anything so i cleaned a large piece of aquarium equipment... and still nothing. eventually i asked if we were gonna watch the movie she came over to see; and she said 'sure'. i had to burn the .iso still, so i went to my comp and then thought 'fuck this' and told her i didn't wanna watch the movie. i liked porn. i like sg, the content and neither is new. nothing's changed about me and i dunno where this was coming from.. if the site offended her or if she was insecure; either was fine but if this was such a huge issue we should try to stay just friends 'cause it won't work.
she wasn't expecting that and stared out my balcony door for a few minutes, i guess expecting me to say something else. i decided to clean the aquarium glass with the magnetic scraper; it's kinda fun. she then said she was gonna leave; i said 'ok' and when she was about to walk out the door i asked 'so you're just going to leave?'
she didn't. she said she didn't know what would happen at an sg event, and in a lot of words basically admitted to being insecure. i told her... well, the truth. official events are .. official, like any kind of convention. community meet ups would be different, due to setting but it's just social. she said she wanted to go to the gala with me to 'watch me', as if i'd go randomly sleep with a chick from the internet... who i just met?
porn bugs her. she felt threatened by the fact that i look at other women. i told her bluntly "it's just masturbation material for when you're not around", which it is. I have a calendar above my monitor from one of the photogs on this site; which is another reason i like sg. there's a few photogs that have a style i like. she said she hated the calendar. i said it was awesome for the photography and it's tasteful.
i assured her i didn't want to break up, but i'd prefer she talk to me about things that bug her, honestly so i can deal with the situation. if it turns out that sg, and pr0n is a big problem for her.. then i'll be single again. at some point i'll find a sexy chick that likes weed and pinups/etc.
anyways, this is the second time in like 3 weeks she's gotten upset about a major part of my life. the last time it was 'cause i said my ex's name in a conversation with another person referencing an item from my old apt with the girl. who the fuck gets upset and stews over that for days?
being me, i just kinda stood there thinking 'wtf' and defending both. the 'argument' was irrational so i didn't try to participate. after i cooked dinner and we ate, she still hadn't said anything so i cleaned a large piece of aquarium equipment... and still nothing. eventually i asked if we were gonna watch the movie she came over to see; and she said 'sure'. i had to burn the .iso still, so i went to my comp and then thought 'fuck this' and told her i didn't wanna watch the movie. i liked porn. i like sg, the content and neither is new. nothing's changed about me and i dunno where this was coming from.. if the site offended her or if she was insecure; either was fine but if this was such a huge issue we should try to stay just friends 'cause it won't work.
she wasn't expecting that and stared out my balcony door for a few minutes, i guess expecting me to say something else. i decided to clean the aquarium glass with the magnetic scraper; it's kinda fun. she then said she was gonna leave; i said 'ok' and when she was about to walk out the door i asked 'so you're just going to leave?'
she didn't. she said she didn't know what would happen at an sg event, and in a lot of words basically admitted to being insecure. i told her... well, the truth. official events are .. official, like any kind of convention. community meet ups would be different, due to setting but it's just social. she said she wanted to go to the gala with me to 'watch me', as if i'd go randomly sleep with a chick from the internet... who i just met?
porn bugs her. she felt threatened by the fact that i look at other women. i told her bluntly "it's just masturbation material for when you're not around", which it is. I have a calendar above my monitor from one of the photogs on this site; which is another reason i like sg. there's a few photogs that have a style i like. she said she hated the calendar. i said it was awesome for the photography and it's tasteful.
i assured her i didn't want to break up, but i'd prefer she talk to me about things that bug her, honestly so i can deal with the situation. if it turns out that sg, and pr0n is a big problem for her.. then i'll be single again. at some point i'll find a sexy chick that likes weed and pinups/etc.
anyways, this is the second time in like 3 weeks she's gotten upset about a major part of my life. the last time it was 'cause i said my ex's name in a conversation with another person referencing an item from my old apt with the girl. who the fuck gets upset and stews over that for days?
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I'm member and an hopeful photographer (my first set will be online in few hours...) and for the moment I am single. But I am wondering how a girl, who didn't know the site, will take it.
That's my life, and I am proud of it. I met so cool people from here. It will break my heart if my next girl tell me: "that's SG or me!".
Cheers man!