Well I seem to have a dilema, which is ponderous in it's simple form. My ex and I went out for lunch today as it's her birthday and I thought it might be good of me to indulge her for an afternoon. We are really good friends now and share a lot of shit thats just for us. We have been split since august and she has a new beau, who she is having some problems with and asked advice on what to do.
Here's the sticky bit, he doesn't figure out our friendship even though he has ex-girlfriends he hangs out with. So he's a wee bit jealous, for no reason mind you but still, how do I give advice on how shitty or unshitty he's treating her and not worry about our gang think I'm trying to break them up when I'm just looking out for her?
Mayhaps this needs a post.
Here's the sticky bit, he doesn't figure out our friendship even though he has ex-girlfriends he hangs out with. So he's a wee bit jealous, for no reason mind you but still, how do I give advice on how shitty or unshitty he's treating her and not worry about our gang think I'm trying to break them up when I'm just looking out for her?
Mayhaps this needs a post.
drama's no fun. bleh.