Yeah, so the big drama of my week last week was that I had a brief two day fling with my most recent ex. We were talking about getting back together, but in the end I told her I thought it would be a bad idea for two reasons:
1) Although one would hope that we would be able to work through problems, during the two days I realized it wouldn't happen. We get along fine when we're friends, but we both have different needs in a relationship, and it wouldn't be possible for both of us to really be as happy as we would like to be. It sux, cause she really does love me. But I guess thats life.
2) She's seeing another guy, who she doesn't want to break up with. This in itself is not a problem, but she didn't want to tell him that she was seeing me too. To me, this is the difference between being in an open relationship and cheating. If she wants to see both of us, cool, but lying to the other guy to see me isn't good. Its not something I was comfortable with.
Why is it women and men are generally very reasonable, but when they interact with each other they get all stupid. Consequently, I'm not doing anything good for v-day. I'm going to sit around alone and mope. I used to at least go to the meat markets and try to get laid, but I don't think I will this year. Oh well.
Hey, everyone should see the movie Ju-On. I watched it a couple of nights ago, and its awesome. So unbelievably good. Also, go check out Genevive. Shes getting the shaft, but we can actually do something to help her out. So we should. People who don't take the 30 seconds to do something are seriously lazy fuckers.
1) Although one would hope that we would be able to work through problems, during the two days I realized it wouldn't happen. We get along fine when we're friends, but we both have different needs in a relationship, and it wouldn't be possible for both of us to really be as happy as we would like to be. It sux, cause she really does love me. But I guess thats life.
2) She's seeing another guy, who she doesn't want to break up with. This in itself is not a problem, but she didn't want to tell him that she was seeing me too. To me, this is the difference between being in an open relationship and cheating. If she wants to see both of us, cool, but lying to the other guy to see me isn't good. Its not something I was comfortable with.
Why is it women and men are generally very reasonable, but when they interact with each other they get all stupid. Consequently, I'm not doing anything good for v-day. I'm going to sit around alone and mope. I used to at least go to the meat markets and try to get laid, but I don't think I will this year. Oh well.
Hey, everyone should see the movie Ju-On. I watched it a couple of nights ago, and its awesome. So unbelievably good. Also, go check out Genevive. Shes getting the shaft, but we can actually do something to help her out. So we should. People who don't take the 30 seconds to do something are seriously lazy fuckers.
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Have a great weekend if I don't talk with you sooner!!
as for the romance thing... I'm trying to be less jaded about it and more the 'blind faith' type.. but it's hard... and I like things to be easy.. even though they never are.
As for your post -- sucks it didn't work out with your ex.
And I find that people in general, in their interactions with each other (be it male/female, male/male or female/female) can get stupid and complicated. Ah well, such is life. *le sigh*
I too will be moping around on v-day alone.