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Back!

I<m totally posting pics later, I have a zillion.
But first. Isnt it great to leave and to come back to a facebook inbox like this?

<stacy> Hey, I hate to say this but I have to. I need the bed back unless you wanna pay for it. Let me know what you decide. I need to know asap. Thanks.

<me> I can't even begin to say how fucked up that is.
I'm in Ottawa right now, I'll deal with life being an asshole when I get back.

<me>Hi I'm back now. What's the story here, what's the deal?

<s>I need the bed back or you can buy it.

<me>If you want I can remind you of all the things I threw out before you nicely told me you'd help me out and give me the bed, after I was moving in with you.

<s>I'm not going to argue about it. I apologize for not asking nicely. But now its your choice to either give it back because I do really need it. Or pay for it.

<me>Well you've already given it to me so it doesn't belong to you. So I'm the one that's sorry.

<s>Ya kno, that's pretty fucking low of you Val. I was helping you out and I did tell you that I wanted to sell it, and that as soon as you got another bed that I wanted mine back. I guess you chose not to hear that. I want it back asap!

<me>Don't say that's low of me, I'm doing absolutely nothing low or ratty.

I don't even understand why this is an issue.

Here's what I'm getting from this. You want the bed back, because you need it. That's fine, but the agreement was you were giving me the bed because at the time you didn't need it, and you felt bad because of the whole mess that happened. Now I feel like you want it back because either you need it, for whatever reason, or you don't feel so bad about what happened anymore and you know I have it. That's not how things work. I'm really not trying to patronize you or anything I'm just trying to reason with you.

<s>Yhere is no reasoning with this, I want my bed back. I told you either buy it or when you get another one to kindly give it back. But I need it and want it. Seems like you don't remember that.

<me>No, actually I don't.

*****

Here's the thing. Our friendship didn't end on good terms. This is the girl I was gonna move in with but her mom was retarded blah blah. Had she told me the bed was a lend, then I wouldn't have taken it, because I don't like owing people stuff, much less to people I'm not talking to or not getting along with. And oh, I don't fuck people over. Seems to happen a lot to me cause I'm pretty trusting, but I don't do it to others.

I hate that my best friend since grade 8 is going out with her, first girlfriend. It's unfair for him to have to deal with this shit, he doesnt want to get involved. So I said cool well friendship with me while your with her wont work, so call me whenever you need me, I'll always be there for you, But I can't ask you to pick that's just unfair. I know you really like her, so have fun, and like I said if you need me I'll be here. But I have nothing good to say about her right now, so maybe you shouldn't hang around me too much.

Ugh. Random episode. I thought that chapter was all nice and over.

xoxo

Okay okay one happy pic after all that.