***RANT ALERT! RANT ALERT! RANT ALERT!***
(By the way, that's a hard thing to write for some reason, and looks very wierd once written.)
Okay, So I had like 3 days off from work, between X-mas and after the New Year... In which my roomate's parents decided to come in and just A) Spend the night, B) Wash everything in sight. I'll adress these accordingly.
A) My roomate's father came to spend the night, on the couch in the living room. Now, normally this isn't a big thing, if it's visiting family or whatever, I have friends over as well. The difference is this is a 50 some year old man that I don't know, and I wasn't told he was coming over. Not to mention the fact that he was sleeping by 10. So that leaves the rest of the house, other than my room, off limits, cause I'm respectful like that and didn't want to make noise. I was respectful, and now I choose to bitch about it. That's how it is. So the reason WHY he didn't go home is because my roomie's parents are in a rough patch right now and they are living at my roomie's g-parents. SO. His dad isn't allowed to smoke weed there. So he comes and hangs out with My roomie, which is fine really, I mean I'd be jonesing too. But mister was at my place at like 1:30, and spent the day smoking, and didn't want to go home for fear of being caught, I'm told. Whatever. Annoying. In any case, at 50 something, I will not be afraid of my parents, as I am not now.
B) Okay so some might think it's nice to have someone nice enough to come and clean everything, and i t is I mean I can't deny she did a good job and I'm thankful it's done, but it completely destroyed the point I was trying to make to my roomate, which is I do all the main chores, every 2 weeks, as he should, every alternating week from then. WHICH HE DOESN'T. So the appartment has been getting harder to keep up with. I mean I even have a seperate place to put MY dishes, cause it's so bad that it's at the point where I need to keep tabs on what I've dirtied, cause I'm sick of picxking his shit up. And it was starting to work! He vaccumed last week! Well now mommy walks in, cleans everything, embarrases me repeatedly by talking of how dirty it is and whatnot. She scrubbed my bath. Tell me that's not wierd to have someone come in, and scrub your tub. YEAH IT'S PINK, I JUST DID MY HAIRDYE. THANKS FOR WASHING IT, BUT IT'LL BE PINK TOMORROW! (Hence the not washing it right away). But it's like I don't have anything to prove to these people, I moved out of my parents house to not have to deal with parents, right?!
So, I'm loosing sight. Ah yes. With all this coming and going, yelling and banging, I could not paint. If there are any artists here, they'll understand. I need my music, my joint, my QUIET when I paint. I don't care if people are over, but if theire making more noise then my music is, then I get ANGRY. And I mean fuming. And, overall, I'm not an angry person. I RARELY loose patience or get angry. But when I do, oh man. So I leave angrily... come back a few hours later, only to leave right away, and this is what his mom says to me...
'Don't worry, we're leaving, we're gonna be out of your hair, you wont see us anymore, were gone, were leaving.'
Okay, I don't feel like a 5 year old now... WTF, how's this flipped on me? I was angry, I had reason, and now I'm being talked to condescendingly. That, in my opinion, could be considered manipulation... Now I know whare the roomate gets it from...
Anyways sorry to drop this on everyone, but sometimes you gotta rant.
Hooray for moving in April! YAY!
Take it easy, I'm totally back to being me now
xoxo
Just wanted to add, this is what his dad says. We're watching tv, a commercial with a woman cleaning a table, he goes 'GOTTA LOVE THOSE WOMEN WHO CLEAN'... You shoulda seen the lightnings come out of my eyes. My roomate's fucked if he thinks he'll find a cooking cleaning and always looking perfect gf. I mean there are some. BUT WHAT FUCKING KIND OF MENTALITY IS THAT?!
(By the way, that's a hard thing to write for some reason, and looks very wierd once written.)
Okay, So I had like 3 days off from work, between X-mas and after the New Year... In which my roomate's parents decided to come in and just A) Spend the night, B) Wash everything in sight. I'll adress these accordingly.
A) My roomate's father came to spend the night, on the couch in the living room. Now, normally this isn't a big thing, if it's visiting family or whatever, I have friends over as well. The difference is this is a 50 some year old man that I don't know, and I wasn't told he was coming over. Not to mention the fact that he was sleeping by 10. So that leaves the rest of the house, other than my room, off limits, cause I'm respectful like that and didn't want to make noise. I was respectful, and now I choose to bitch about it. That's how it is. So the reason WHY he didn't go home is because my roomie's parents are in a rough patch right now and they are living at my roomie's g-parents. SO. His dad isn't allowed to smoke weed there. So he comes and hangs out with My roomie, which is fine really, I mean I'd be jonesing too. But mister was at my place at like 1:30, and spent the day smoking, and didn't want to go home for fear of being caught, I'm told. Whatever. Annoying. In any case, at 50 something, I will not be afraid of my parents, as I am not now.
B) Okay so some might think it's nice to have someone nice enough to come and clean everything, and i t is I mean I can't deny she did a good job and I'm thankful it's done, but it completely destroyed the point I was trying to make to my roomate, which is I do all the main chores, every 2 weeks, as he should, every alternating week from then. WHICH HE DOESN'T. So the appartment has been getting harder to keep up with. I mean I even have a seperate place to put MY dishes, cause it's so bad that it's at the point where I need to keep tabs on what I've dirtied, cause I'm sick of picxking his shit up. And it was starting to work! He vaccumed last week! Well now mommy walks in, cleans everything, embarrases me repeatedly by talking of how dirty it is and whatnot. She scrubbed my bath. Tell me that's not wierd to have someone come in, and scrub your tub. YEAH IT'S PINK, I JUST DID MY HAIRDYE. THANKS FOR WASHING IT, BUT IT'LL BE PINK TOMORROW! (Hence the not washing it right away). But it's like I don't have anything to prove to these people, I moved out of my parents house to not have to deal with parents, right?!
So, I'm loosing sight. Ah yes. With all this coming and going, yelling and banging, I could not paint. If there are any artists here, they'll understand. I need my music, my joint, my QUIET when I paint. I don't care if people are over, but if theire making more noise then my music is, then I get ANGRY. And I mean fuming. And, overall, I'm not an angry person. I RARELY loose patience or get angry. But when I do, oh man. So I leave angrily... come back a few hours later, only to leave right away, and this is what his mom says to me...
'Don't worry, we're leaving, we're gonna be out of your hair, you wont see us anymore, were gone, were leaving.'
Okay, I don't feel like a 5 year old now... WTF, how's this flipped on me? I was angry, I had reason, and now I'm being talked to condescendingly. That, in my opinion, could be considered manipulation... Now I know whare the roomate gets it from...
Anyways sorry to drop this on everyone, but sometimes you gotta rant.
Hooray for moving in April! YAY!
Take it easy, I'm totally back to being me now
xoxo
Just wanted to add, this is what his dad says. We're watching tv, a commercial with a woman cleaning a table, he goes 'GOTTA LOVE THOSE WOMEN WHO CLEAN'... You shoulda seen the lightnings come out of my eyes. My roomate's fucked if he thinks he'll find a cooking cleaning and always looking perfect gf. I mean there are some. BUT WHAT FUCKING KIND OF MENTALITY IS THAT?!
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And your roommate situation sounds extremely fucking douchy. I'd be damn pissed too. I live with my father and don't have to listen to crap like that. Haha.