atak

i dont believe in the hierarchy of class systems when it comes to dating, because deep down everybody wants to be genuinely cared about. and when you see a hot chick with a goofball, dont hate because she's just enlightened.
she would rather be with someone who treats her right than someone that cant count higher than how many abs they have.
the problems with this equation are atmosphere and society, respectively. 1) when you put yourself into a situation where every woman realizes that you have hook-ups in mind, you are already at a disadvantage...i.e. a bar or club. and how many people are really worth looking into in these venue's anyway? which also begs the question; where is a respectable medium to meet like minded people of a quality caliber? 2) when you find a person that seems to suit every quality that your black as night and/or white as the driven snow heart desires, are you secure enough for the third party perspective. some would refer to this as the shallow hal syndrome and if you're honest with yourself, i think it would be alot harder than you think to introduce someone who is obviously below other peoples expectations of what you can be capable of pursueing. especially if you really respect close friends and family's opinions.
those, in a nutshell are the problems one faces when searching for a suitable mate in under 500 words. im sure your humble narrator could come up with quite a few more when provoked but right now all i can think is
eff them bitches