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Let his death open up the discussion.

Aug 11, 2014
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I'm not usually one to gnash my teeth over the passing of a celebrity, but, for personal reasons, tragedies involving depression and suicide always hit all the way to the bone for me. It's been a week in which we've seen thousands of people dump buckets of water over their heads to raise awareness for one horrible illness; today another illness took the life of someone who had every avenue of prevention available to him and the demons still won.

I just made a donation to the National Suicide Prevention Hotline. I'm not saying this to make myself feel better or to guilt anyone into doing the same. I'm just saying there's a lot of people out there quietly fighting their own demons who could use a hand, and numerous organizations who are trying like hell to help fight a lot of mental illnesses in a country that does not do anywhere near enough to help those who need it. This happens every day to people great and small.

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maevee:
Unfortunately, in this era it's easy to come across someone who lost someone to suicide. Less than two weeks ago, a friend of mine told me that one of his sisters took her life 15 years ago...I had no idea and it really hit a sensible spot..
Aug 11, 2014
ashander:
Lost my best friend 15 years ago. Eternal impact on me. And people are so quick to write suicides off instead of asking why and what could have been done to help. What went wrong. Why were they so profoundly unhappy. It's a discussion modern society really needs to have and I feel like we're afraid of it. 
Aug 11, 2014

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