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It's been a while since I updated, so apologies for that. Holidays were insanely busy 'round here, and after that my wonderful long time friend Snottlebocket came over to visit me from the Netherlands, so that was really fun to actually meet him in person after talking to him almost every day for hrs and hrs for the last 4 yrs I *love* to show ppl how incredible chicago is. Who else wants a tour?

Aside from that, I would really love to publicly thank a very awesome friend of mine who I think has a huge heart, and that's Schiavona for helping to make my sons xmas extra extra special this yr. i dont even know what to say, except maybe the biggest thank you in all the land. I *did* receive a late gift for him like, yesterday or the day before .. which was totally cool and unexpected, HOWEVER ... the person didnt leave a note telling me who it was!


~Now I know you're all perfect as it is, but just in the rare case you *might* want to change something in the new yr, Im really curious as to what that is.

~How many friends of the same sex do you have? Do you think it's essential to have friends of the same sex to bullshit with/have a good time with?

~And the ever-burning question: Do you think men or women need to feel attracted to someone of the opposite sex in order to befriend them? I've heard many ppl say this, particularly abt men. Not that *all* of them are like this but that the majority of them are. It kind of makes u wonder who is *really* your friend.