WHEW... what an awkward moment talking to my ex-wife... well she's not my EX-wife YET. We've been separated almost 6 years. I got the paperwork all worked up from my aunt's boss/attorney - signed the papers and gave them to her. But she moved and in the process of her moving she lost the paper work.
She's always been on my facebook and we've never really discussed the divorce - well we have several years ago but never did anything about it. She sent me a message via FB messenger and was kind of talking all sweet to me.. not flirty but just being very complimentary and such. I was like.. hmm.. this is weird. I was thinking... OMG.. does she REALLY want to work things out? I actually had this thought of... hmm... do I want to make this work? Do I still have feelings for this woman? lmao. She's gorgeous - don't get me wrong... she just had major issues in the past which is what lead to us "breaking up" lol.
Well... after our little chit-chat she finally asked... so what do we need to do to get this divorce taken care of. A big sigh of relief came over me!!!
I really did NOT want to give US another shot - It probably wouldn't have worked out anyway. So I'm in discussion with her about how we are going to get this divorce finalized.
She and I will remain friends... probably just through Facebook which is the best way to go. I've been single for 5 years and right now I'm just not ready to dive into a relationship... as soon as I've done some more soul searching for ME... and strive at reaching certain goals I've made for myself... then I'll start the process of getting back into the dating scene. For now... single life is kinda nice ... for the time being anyway.
She's always been on my facebook and we've never really discussed the divorce - well we have several years ago but never did anything about it. She sent me a message via FB messenger and was kind of talking all sweet to me.. not flirty but just being very complimentary and such. I was like.. hmm.. this is weird. I was thinking... OMG.. does she REALLY want to work things out? I actually had this thought of... hmm... do I want to make this work? Do I still have feelings for this woman? lmao. She's gorgeous - don't get me wrong... she just had major issues in the past which is what lead to us "breaking up" lol.
Well... after our little chit-chat she finally asked... so what do we need to do to get this divorce taken care of. A big sigh of relief came over me!!!
I really did NOT want to give US another shot - It probably wouldn't have worked out anyway. So I'm in discussion with her about how we are going to get this divorce finalized.
She and I will remain friends... probably just through Facebook which is the best way to go. I've been single for 5 years and right now I'm just not ready to dive into a relationship... as soon as I've done some more soul searching for ME... and strive at reaching certain goals I've made for myself... then I'll start the process of getting back into the dating scene. For now... single life is kinda nice ... for the time being anyway.
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smite:
I'm so glad that things seemed to work out so far and hope they continue to
artisticarmor:
Thanks - we'll remain FB friends -that's it. I don't have any desires or intentions to hang out with her. Not trying to say that in a mean way. It's just a chapter in my life that has ended and I'm traveling onward