Ok I thought it was about time I did an update! I have been away far too long! 
Life has taken some interesting twists and turns lately and I have found myself very absorbed in what is going on here.
Minxtamer and I have always been interested in the BDSM lifestyle. Our relationship has always had D/s qualities (Dominate/submissive) and latley we have started to take it even further. We dabbled a little bit a few years ago, but with kids and all they entail it is just a hard thing to do. Now that they are growing up and have their own lives, we can do basically whatever we want.
We have found a cool site that has helped us alot and given us some insite into what we are searching for, it is called bondage.com.
Now I know some of you are thinking "EEEWWW!" but it works for us and it is something we love and are wholly devoted to. I have never loved my husband more then I have in the last few weeks and our sex life has never been better. (yeah again with the great sex life!)
Ok on to other mundane things. My daughter has two more months beofre she graduates from high school and my in laws are coming to visit her at teh end of this month for her graduation as they can't make it in May.
They will be here for a week and I have to get this place organized and cleaned up before they get here. I hate cleaning!
My boy finally graduated language school and with flying colors! I am so proud of him. Now he will head to computer school, but not until his security clearance goes thru, so he willbe in California until August probably.
Well, that is what is happening here. Oh yeah, the weather is finally warming up and we are getting into spring at last!
Summer will be here before you know it...I just don't even want to think about what happens after summer! lol
Life has taken some interesting twists and turns lately and I have found myself very absorbed in what is going on here.
Minxtamer and I have always been interested in the BDSM lifestyle. Our relationship has always had D/s qualities (Dominate/submissive) and latley we have started to take it even further. We dabbled a little bit a few years ago, but with kids and all they entail it is just a hard thing to do. Now that they are growing up and have their own lives, we can do basically whatever we want.
We have found a cool site that has helped us alot and given us some insite into what we are searching for, it is called bondage.com.
Now I know some of you are thinking "EEEWWW!" but it works for us and it is something we love and are wholly devoted to. I have never loved my husband more then I have in the last few weeks and our sex life has never been better. (yeah again with the great sex life!)
Ok on to other mundane things. My daughter has two more months beofre she graduates from high school and my in laws are coming to visit her at teh end of this month for her graduation as they can't make it in May.
They will be here for a week and I have to get this place organized and cleaned up before they get here. I hate cleaning!
My boy finally graduated language school and with flying colors! I am so proud of him. Now he will head to computer school, but not until his security clearance goes thru, so he willbe in California until August probably.
Well, that is what is happening here. Oh yeah, the weather is finally warming up and we are getting into spring at last!
Summer will be here before you know it...I just don't even want to think about what happens after summer! lol
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happy birthday!
I've noticed you on the site before but did not write
cause you clearly state you are looking for a woman
(though you have
or maybe because you have
"a husband"
Your life seems to be going well. enjoy the BDSM lifestyle ...it can be great. Just remember safety and summation. your really need honesty to explore there and I applaud you ! I hope my life if going as well as yours when I turn 40 (in October)
If you havent discovered the movie "secretary" I recommend it ( I discovered it through an SG member)
and Midori's "japanese rope bondage" (though somewone stole my copy) is fantastic.
enjoy
PS- I love this answer:
FAVORITE SEXUAL POSITION: The one where I am leaving claw marks. three cheers for claw marks! I play a string instrument so i use metal "fingerpickin" picks. though not made for the "occaision" they are quite wonderfull and made to fit every finger. my favorites are from a company called pro-pic. I noticed we share Jackie as a friend <heart sinks- isn't she great!)
all for now,
nicetiger