appreciateher

Went out with a girl I had been out with before . She is a nice person but really shy and subdued . I guess kind of uptight . We were at a party and enjoying ourselves . I am starting to find it hard to be with her because she doesn't even let go when she is drunk . I know she is feeling good because she has had a lot of shots , but she just likes to sit on the bar stool . Having fun with her is a lot of work . I have to coax and work really hard to get her to interact with everyone . she knows everyone at the party . We have been friends for a while with everyone . When does it become too much work and not worth the effort ? I write this openly because I figure the girls here on SG are outgoing . What helps you all to come out of your shells ( if you have any shyness) . Maybe even what is your favorite thing to use that helps you come out ?