I spoke to her yesterday. After seeing her and freaking out, I figured we would actually bump into one another - so I IMd her to say hi - I saw you - just saying hey.
It led to a chat. And then she called me later. Talked for about 1/2 hour. Told her lots of things - I was disappointed in the way she treated me, etc.
Caught her in a few lies. She owned up to others.
I felt okay afterwards and do today. Still sad - still empty - but not scared.
EDITED:
I feel now what I have known intellectually the past month - that there is no possiblity for reconciliation and she is not the woman for me.
I think now I can finally let go.
It led to a chat. And then she called me later. Talked for about 1/2 hour. Told her lots of things - I was disappointed in the way she treated me, etc.
Caught her in a few lies. She owned up to others.
I felt okay afterwards and do today. Still sad - still empty - but not scared.
EDITED:
I feel now what I have known intellectually the past month - that there is no possiblity for reconciliation and she is not the woman for me.
I think now I can finally let go.
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incorrigible:
way to go. sometimes it's good to talk to the people you're thinking about....reminds you of their reality versus your idea of them.
threestares:
excellent. 