anotherlostsoul

Right, so...

I met a guy. I like him. But there are always problems.

He's in a band and I saw him playing at a bar that I often go to. He sought me out (which NEVER happens to me) during their break and came and chatted me up after the set. Honestly, I am very impressed by him. He really seems to have his shit together, he's nice and intelligent as well.

BUT, he didn't ask for my number and I was too chicken to ask for his. I now have an inkling that he may have a girlfriend. The only way I will ever see him again is if I make the effort to go to another of their shows. So, now I don't know what to do. I mean, it's not like I have anything invested in him, but at the same time, it's rare that I find someone I'm interested in and also makes an effort to get to know me as well. Grrr...

Don't know if I'm actually looking for any comments about this, I just needed a space to vent. Should you have any thoughts, that would be appreciated.