angryadam

I miss my bird. I have no idea how to get him up here. Too long of a drive. What's the procedure for air travel with a bird?

You ever have a significant other who found a passion in something which you are not even a little bit interested in? It's a little hard to understand. Usually I can agree that what's she's into is at least kinda cool, or whatever.
Not this time. I thouroughly do not give a shit. It's funny, and disturbing.

I found out in my communications class that statistically speaking, if you live with someone before you get married, as a trial household type of deal, you are not likely to stay together. During that trial period you are actively looking for a reason to change your mind about the relationship. Think about it.

It's what my gf and I are planning, essencially.

So what does that say for people then? Support my standing on monogamy? The self-fulfilling prophecy is the idea for which the outcome is determined at the same time as its manifestation. If you think someone is nice, you talk to them as though they are nice. Therefore, they treat you nicely.
If you're waiting to see if your gf has any deal breaker living habits, she's going to display a habit which annoys you on some level, which is percieved as a deal breaker.

So what's the proper way to do it? Jump in with both feet. Get married and deal with habits which would have driven you off otherwise. You're married now. There's no going back. Sorry man, better luck next... err wait. Nevermind... just bad luck. Sucks to be you.