ok....freakin' out a little bit...I just went on a job interview and I am (of course) the recommended candidate ...trouble is I have to come up with written reference letters which I never had to have before at any of the ooh 8 or so schools I've worked in ...so I don't have them lying around like apparently other people do....my future boss recommends what? That I ask my ex for one ....yes...totally what I want to do..I told her straight up ...I'll do it....because you told me to...but I'm pretty sure he's busy being that next month he will be marrying the girl he left me for.....awesome sauce....I totally just want to go the gym and work out till I pass out but I have till like Thursday to figure this out so...I don't even know if I can do that