I few things I have come to learn.. You might read Man a lot but it goes both ways!!
If a man wants you nothing will keep him away.
If he doesn't want you nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. *in some cases **wink**
Never live your life for a man before you find what truely makes you happy.
If the relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then hell no, you can not be friends.
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't Settle, You deserve better then that.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better" You will be mad at yourself a year later when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Maintain bounderies in how a man treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up!! their not mind readers.
Never let a man know everything! He will use it against you later.
You can not change a mans behavior! Change comes from within.
Always have your own set of friends seperate from his.
Don't ever make him feel he is more important then you are! Even if he has more education or a better job! Don't make him into a Quasi-God, he is a man nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never "Barrow" someone elses man! he if cheated with you, he will cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
All men are NOT DOGS.
You should not be the only one doing the bending, Compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships! there is nothing cute about baggage! Deal with your issues before persuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you, A relationship consists of two whole individuals.
Look for someone complemtary not supplementary.
Make him miss you sometimes! When a man always knows were you are, and your always available to him, he takes you for granted.
Don't fully commit to man who doesn't give you everything you need.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them....
If a man wants you nothing will keep him away.
If he doesn't want you nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. *in some cases **wink**
Never live your life for a man before you find what truely makes you happy.
If the relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then hell no, you can not be friends.
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't Settle, You deserve better then that.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better" You will be mad at yourself a year later when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Maintain bounderies in how a man treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up!! their not mind readers.
Never let a man know everything! He will use it against you later.
You can not change a mans behavior! Change comes from within.
Always have your own set of friends seperate from his.
Don't ever make him feel he is more important then you are! Even if he has more education or a better job! Don't make him into a Quasi-God, he is a man nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never "Barrow" someone elses man! he if cheated with you, he will cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
All men are NOT DOGS.
You should not be the only one doing the bending, Compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships! there is nothing cute about baggage! Deal with your issues before persuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you, A relationship consists of two whole individuals.
Look for someone complemtary not supplementary.
Make him miss you sometimes! When a man always knows were you are, and your always available to him, he takes you for granted.
Don't fully commit to man who doesn't give you everything you need.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them....
littlejohn22:
it takes a long time for some people to learn these lessons
rollnrob:
Well said .. you have much wisdom beyond your years 