thanks to everyone for all the kind comments.
i havent been such an attentive friend this week, sorry.
WE FOUND CISCO!!!!! yea!
he had gotten through the hole in the bathroom wall into the neighbors apartment, freaked out and hid under their bed. he must have been in there for more than 24 hours.
I knocked on their door and said our cat was missing....
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i havent been such an attentive friend this week, sorry.
WE FOUND CISCO!!!!! yea!
he had gotten through the hole in the bathroom wall into the neighbors apartment, freaked out and hid under their bed. he must have been in there for more than 24 hours.
I knocked on their door and said our cat was missing....
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oh dear,
one of our cats is missing.
we have these 2 cats. they are cousins. they were wild cats rescued from the streets of Williamsburg. They are probably about 5 years old. They are both very shy and hide a lot and we had plumbers in on Monday so I wanst surprised that they were hiding.
We live in an apartment, they never go...
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one of our cats is missing.
we have these 2 cats. they are cousins. they were wild cats rescued from the streets of Williamsburg. They are probably about 5 years old. They are both very shy and hide a lot and we had plumbers in on Monday so I wanst surprised that they were hiding.
We live in an apartment, they never go...
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severus:
Hey you. I'm sorry about the kitty, hopefully he'll show up soon.
Blargh. I am just sick of being sick. Sore throatness. I hope you're having a good day over there.
Blargh. I am just sick of being sick. Sore throatness. I hope you're having a good day over there.
xxroninxx:
Nah, I'm good an sober now 
Being pissed off at the world only 5% of the time is actually doing pretty good--you apathetic bastard!!
I kid, I kid...
Seriously, if I've learned anything from the songs I hated as a child, the cat will come back the very next day...
Being pissed off at the world only 5% of the time is actually doing pretty good--you apathetic bastard!!
I kid, I kid...
Seriously, if I've learned anything from the songs I hated as a child, the cat will come back the very next day...
should this be the journal of
the fucked up year with my husband?
the journal of my last year of nursing school?
the year we move to VT?
(i bought a year here)
none of these seem quite appropriate for SG, but its what i've got and those seem to be what i'm moved to write about.
sexy and fun, huh?
you dont really have...
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the fucked up year with my husband?
the journal of my last year of nursing school?
the year we move to VT?
(i bought a year here)
none of these seem quite appropriate for SG, but its what i've got and those seem to be what i'm moved to write about.
sexy and fun, huh?
you dont really have...
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severus:
hey. sorry i am a little late and lame at getting back right now 'cause i am feeling sick, well, i am. stupid shit. i hate getting a cold, or whatever this is, something like it. sore throat. uuh. okay, i'll stop complain about it in your journal now. 
hope you're having a good day. i've been out for 4 hours, cold but sunny.
hope you're having a good day. i've been out for 4 hours, cold but sunny.
rustgiraffe:
i have like 1picture of me drinking..and it was me just chillin at christmas time. nothing exciting at all.
i have tons of my stupid face in front of the camera though..haha
i have tons of my stupid face in front of the camera though..haha
i heard a rumor that Michael Moores next movie is going to be about the nightmare that is our countrys health care system.
if you have a health car horror story please send it to
michael@michaelmoore.com
really.
i'm sending him something. it was a horror story but in the context of the movie i think it would be more like a 3 minute amusing aside.
if you have a health car horror story please send it to
michael@michaelmoore.com
really.
i'm sending him something. it was a horror story but in the context of the movie i think it would be more like a 3 minute amusing aside.
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kenyon:
thanks so much for reminding me to just keep cycling through the feelings. the reinforcement is really helpful.
lizzie borden: i totally know what you mean!
lizzie borden: i totally know what you mean!
adair:
LOL. Thanks for your comment(s). I actually find SG to be a pretty good group to talk to about stuff like this- they do have the ability to be pretty nont biased. Of course, I expected more people would say yes than no, but I wanted more than their "vote" to see their reasons behind it.
i'm a bummer
more later
more later
lalindaloca:
Oh my... I just read your last entry. My gut reaction: run. I was in a similar situation: married for 14 years, together for 19. You asked about my stuff... yes, I'm getting rid of 20 years of collecting madness on the eve of a divorce - come June, I'll be separated for 2 years. If your level of distrust is that high with him, I think (in my limited knowledge of your actual situation) you need to trust yourself and your instincts. I'm just sayin'... 
My situation, however complicated, did not involve children. Kids complicate everything.
Chin up!
[Edited on Feb 26, 2006 8:52PM]
My situation, however complicated, did not involve children. Kids complicate everything.
Chin up!
[Edited on Feb 26, 2006 8:52PM]
junecleavage:
I LURVE Free to be You and Me - you should also get In Harmony which we raised my brothers on...dig it!
Get ready cause this is gonna be ugly.
I joined this site to spy on my husband. Weve been married for 18 years and I still dont trust him, not a good sign right. So, hes pretty flirty online although hes really up-front that hes married and says he doesnt wanna fool around. Actually I was sorta impressed cause he didnt say anything here (publically...
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I joined this site to spy on my husband. Weve been married for 18 years and I still dont trust him, not a good sign right. So, hes pretty flirty online although hes really up-front that hes married and says he doesnt wanna fool around. Actually I was sorta impressed cause he didnt say anything here (publically...
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kenyon:
wow, i relate to almost everything you wrote (i've been with "mine" for 12 years, 'cept for an official 2 year respite and a few other sketchier, skeevier unofficial respites). we've both been deceptive outside of the relationship, looking for the quick fix.
we're about to move in together. nothing's really changed. we're still who we are. monogamy's tough, and if i wasn't physically disabled, i'd likely be single.
i wish i had some advice for you but all i have is empathy for that constant _on edge_ jealous feeling - when you find something you were looking for, some proof of flirting or whatever, there's such a sick rush in it, of satisfaction, of disgust? do you know what i'm talking about?
actually, i do have advice. if that's a feeling you're having on a regular basis, please be careful. it gets into your cell tissue - these thoughts are not just in our minds and seperate from our bodies. i was really fucking messed-up jealous the year before chronic illness struck. i'm convinced that they're entwined. i'm not trying to scare you. i just think that this is messy emotional territory and has to be dealt with.
xox. n
we're about to move in together. nothing's really changed. we're still who we are. monogamy's tough, and if i wasn't physically disabled, i'd likely be single.
i wish i had some advice for you but all i have is empathy for that constant _on edge_ jealous feeling - when you find something you were looking for, some proof of flirting or whatever, there's such a sick rush in it, of satisfaction, of disgust? do you know what i'm talking about?
actually, i do have advice. if that's a feeling you're having on a regular basis, please be careful. it gets into your cell tissue - these thoughts are not just in our minds and seperate from our bodies. i was really fucking messed-up jealous the year before chronic illness struck. i'm convinced that they're entwined. i'm not trying to scare you. i just think that this is messy emotional territory and has to be dealt with.
xox. n
ichipulti:
hugs honey, I ca totally see wher you are coming from. I have been there actually.
If you ever need someone to talk to let me know I have MSN and yahoo.
x0x0x0x0x0x
Kielyn
If you ever need someone to talk to let me know I have MSN and yahoo.
x0x0x0x0x0x
Kielyn
i stand corrected
i think shekinah may be onto something
i think shekinah may be onto something
if you love the person and it makes you feel close to them, then yes there is no bad sex even if some of the ingredients are missing
i've been with my guy for so long, sometimes i forget there are other ways
i watched john waters Female Trouble the other night. I wasnt expecting...
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spearing:
Maybe you are just dying to swing and dont know it!!! We all need some excitment, and I am in the same boat as you
shekinah:
Oh gosh, I didn't know I was going to be quoted. I'm usually quoting other people.
I think we overuse the word "hot". I definitely overuse it...so and so is hot, and so is this or that. But I don't know if sex with someone unfamiliar is hotter than being with someone you have been with for years. It think it might be more exciting only because our bodies are flooded with those hormones that come with doing anything that is out of the ordinary, new or forbidden.
I certainly hope that it is the beginning of the end for capital punishment. Isn't the oath physicians take the antithesis of capital punishment?
Oh gosh, I didn't know I was going to be quoted. I'm usually quoting other people.
I think we overuse the word "hot". I definitely overuse it...so and so is hot, and so is this or that. But I don't know if sex with someone unfamiliar is hotter than being with someone you have been with for years. It think it might be more exciting only because our bodies are flooded with those hormones that come with doing anything that is out of the ordinary, new or forbidden.
I certainly hope that it is the beginning of the end for capital punishment. Isn't the oath physicians take the antithesis of capital punishment?
so, there's no such thing as bad sex right?
even if
i dont think i'm in the mood
its rushed
theres no capital O
mmmm, its still good
kinda like there's no bad ice cream.
happy presidents day
even if
i dont think i'm in the mood
its rushed
theres no capital O
mmmm, its still good
kinda like there's no bad ice cream.
happy presidents day
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testykitten:
oh how i wish i could have had some bad sex this morning!
thanks for your comment. i am back home after this insanely active day and feeling quite good. i found the story of your transition into nursing quite fascinating. i work in the film industry, and while i do love it, i wonder how long i can sustain.
thanks for your comment. i am back home after this insanely active day and feeling quite good. i found the story of your transition into nursing quite fascinating. i work in the film industry, and while i do love it, i wonder how long i can sustain.
xxroninxx:
Oh. There is most definently such a thing as bad sex.
I was lying in bed freaking out Friday night.
I am in nursing school and I'm almost done. This is a second career for me. I spent 10 years working in film as a producer. I worked at a company that made TV commercials so sometimes even though I produced film it felt like working in advertising (which we all know is the devil). I...
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I am in nursing school and I'm almost done. This is a second career for me. I spent 10 years working in film as a producer. I worked at a company that made TV commercials so sometimes even though I produced film it felt like working in advertising (which we all know is the devil). I...
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junecleavage:
This flu is unbearable but I was at least capable of enering the working realm again - yee ha. I would imagine nursing is an incredibly draining yet rewarding experience.
niobe:
Yeah, the whole friend thing can be a little crazy here sometimes. But it can be fun. 
OK OK Im going crazy with the name thing
CALLIPYGIAN (great word)Having well-shaped buttocks. (And its true, of course)
Its origin is in Greek kallipugos, used to describe a famous statue of Aphrodite; that comes from kallos, beauty (as in calligraphy, or callisthenics, or the lily called hemerocallis) plus puge, buttocks.
But I thought it would be better to have a name name, not a...
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CALLIPYGIAN (great word)Having well-shaped buttocks. (And its true, of course)
Its origin is in Greek kallipugos, used to describe a famous statue of Aphrodite; that comes from kallos, beauty (as in calligraphy, or callisthenics, or the lily called hemerocallis) plus puge, buttocks.
But I thought it would be better to have a name name, not a...
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tubaart:
It's a shame to abandon such a delightful name as callipygian (or its synonym callipygous), but I guess I understand your desire for a "name name". I'm curious, though, why you picked Anaxarete. Do you feel some commonality with her? You have a frustrated hubby or something? 
Anaxarete also bears an unfortunate resemblance (in spelling, not pronunciation) to anorexia, which I hope is only coincidental...
anyway, it will be interesting to see where this SG addiction takes you -- welcome aboard!
Anaxarete also bears an unfortunate resemblance (in spelling, not pronunciation) to anorexia, which I hope is only coincidental...
anyway, it will be interesting to see where this SG addiction takes you -- welcome aboard!
kenyon:
"I am clearly hooked on SG"
happens to the best of us!
(i say go ahead and change your name again if you like! wooo hoo!!!!!!!!!!)
happens to the best of us!
(i say go ahead and change your name again if you like! wooo hoo!!!!!!!!!!)
I feel for you. I'm so so sorry.
Glad you found your kitty!
Poor monkeys. We're all disgruntled!