So i'm probably going to be leaveing PSW or be kicked... but really i couldn't sit back and watch the men be yelled at cause they showed their dicks.. it was wrong.. Heres a copy of my post just in case it gets deleted.
I also sent a letter to the group leader appalogizeing and telling her she did wrong... hope she doesn't take it to poorly.
Ok so I've been in my own world for the last day or two and haven't seen what's been going on in the lets see them thread. Really what is going on is greatly disturbing to me. We are a group of plus size women and their admirers. That doesn't mean just women in this group the men have been welcome here as far as I can see.
We asked them to post the photos and they were gracious enough to please us for a change. It wasn't a guy who asked it was one of the PSW's. And a lot of people have commented on how they enjoy seeing the thread.
I've enjoyed this group because people here seemed open minded. But really I'm seeing a very different side of people now which saddens me greatly. I realize not everyone wants to see the penis but saying it's the first thing that comes up is just BS. You can avoid it. If you start on your groups page and hit PSW instead of the link under it the page will jump to a topics list with no pictures. Just a thought, but maybe changing your habits about how you get to the page would not only given you more control, but it would have avoided hurting some of the men that have been so wonderful to us. Yes men haven't been encouraged to post as often but why not I ask? Many of them have the same self esteem issues we suffer from. The way some of the people here have treated them is callous and mean. So you don't like seeing penis. Some of us do. And some of us feel comfortable being so upfront about it among the people in this group.
Asking them to hide themselves behind a spoiler is very much like society asking us to hide in groups like this. How dare we treat them less then how we are asked to be treated?
One member said "Grow up and respect a person's right to an opinion." That does mean respect everyone's not just yours right? Cause by your rant your not respecting mine or some of the men and women on here. Another member said-"but i came for the ladies. It's a Ladies forum where men are encouraged to encourage US to get naked." Funny I thought the top of the page said "For Plus Sized women and admirers." Because I came here for like minded people not just the women. The same member also said "Then we ladies can all look at each other and say "hey I'm proud of me, and her, and her...we're all beautiful and unique". Well that's true but why can't we also say I'm proud of HIM. And he is Unique and beautiful. And I'm proud to be enjoyed by not only her that is like me but him who finds beauty in me.
I think people in this group really do need to take another look at the rules open-mindness doesn't stop with what your packing between your legs.
2- Use discretion before commenting. If you can't say something nice about someone (PSW or not), then don't say anything at all. This includes comments about weight, such as "thin girls aren't real girls" and "they look anorexic".
3- ZERO tolerance for disrespect to the PSW Models, group members, or Suicide Girls.
Why doesn't this protect the men in this group as well?
In conclusion I think I'm going to leave the group. I just can't support the women that treat such wonderful people like this. I'm sorry and most of you have been absolutely wonderful. You're (this group) the reason I joined SG as it is. A true shame.
I also sent a letter to the group leader appalogizeing and telling her she did wrong... hope she doesn't take it to poorly.
Ok so I've been in my own world for the last day or two and haven't seen what's been going on in the lets see them thread. Really what is going on is greatly disturbing to me. We are a group of plus size women and their admirers. That doesn't mean just women in this group the men have been welcome here as far as I can see.
We asked them to post the photos and they were gracious enough to please us for a change. It wasn't a guy who asked it was one of the PSW's. And a lot of people have commented on how they enjoy seeing the thread.
I've enjoyed this group because people here seemed open minded. But really I'm seeing a very different side of people now which saddens me greatly. I realize not everyone wants to see the penis but saying it's the first thing that comes up is just BS. You can avoid it. If you start on your groups page and hit PSW instead of the link under it the page will jump to a topics list with no pictures. Just a thought, but maybe changing your habits about how you get to the page would not only given you more control, but it would have avoided hurting some of the men that have been so wonderful to us. Yes men haven't been encouraged to post as often but why not I ask? Many of them have the same self esteem issues we suffer from. The way some of the people here have treated them is callous and mean. So you don't like seeing penis. Some of us do. And some of us feel comfortable being so upfront about it among the people in this group.
Asking them to hide themselves behind a spoiler is very much like society asking us to hide in groups like this. How dare we treat them less then how we are asked to be treated?
One member said "Grow up and respect a person's right to an opinion." That does mean respect everyone's not just yours right? Cause by your rant your not respecting mine or some of the men and women on here. Another member said-"but i came for the ladies. It's a Ladies forum where men are encouraged to encourage US to get naked." Funny I thought the top of the page said "For Plus Sized women and admirers." Because I came here for like minded people not just the women. The same member also said "Then we ladies can all look at each other and say "hey I'm proud of me, and her, and her...we're all beautiful and unique". Well that's true but why can't we also say I'm proud of HIM. And he is Unique and beautiful. And I'm proud to be enjoyed by not only her that is like me but him who finds beauty in me.
I think people in this group really do need to take another look at the rules open-mindness doesn't stop with what your packing between your legs.
2- Use discretion before commenting. If you can't say something nice about someone (PSW or not), then don't say anything at all. This includes comments about weight, such as "thin girls aren't real girls" and "they look anorexic".
3- ZERO tolerance for disrespect to the PSW Models, group members, or Suicide Girls.
Why doesn't this protect the men in this group as well?
In conclusion I think I'm going to leave the group. I just can't support the women that treat such wonderful people like this. I'm sorry and most of you have been absolutely wonderful. You're (this group) the reason I joined SG as it is. A true shame.
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anywho... que sara sara.