***Last nite's Date Update
We can call her either "girl #2" or "SuperHippie". Over all, a really good, fun flirty date. She wants to see a movie with me Saturday, hoorah for date #2!
As I said yesterday, I answered her ad on Craigslist, and was surprised to see her respond like 2 weeks later. She's a total raving hippie - she has some interesting stories about how she's lived in 3 'communes' & a kibbutz. She is like a power environmentalist, but luckily gave up the vegitarian thing. Odd answer to that "I cant do EVERYTHING, I can only do so much" (bonus points for honesty & for allowing me to eat freely as I want to! woot!)
She's cute, and as I totally guessed, she's totally bi. Which is fine with me. She let me know about it in a very cute & funny way - short version, I said "the people I date..no, I mean the WOMEN I date (blah blah)", her reply "oh for me the PEOPLE I date (blah blah)" said with a shit eating grin on her face. This was funny, especially since it was an hour after I told her my ex wife has moved in with one of her female co workers and decided shes probably gay. Does anyone see a weird theme in my life with women? Hence, I love all SG members!
So, as I told the Goob last night, as I gave the obligatory walk to the subway, I explained my hatred for coffee & cigarettes. She was semi-concerned, I could tell. I noticed that, and said "So now you're thinking, how could I possibly go out with him again? He doesnt drink coffee, hasnt ever smoked a cigarette, and he hasnt even offered to go down on me yet!" - having said this outloud, after about a minute of laughter with her mouth agape, she replied "well, now that you said it, you sort of HAVE to perform it" - my kinda girl!
So, we are on for a 2nd date at the movies this Saturday. Which I also cannot believe, after I told her all the crazy shit I'm into in bed. Phew.
Now, onto the next date:
***Tonite's pre-date analysis:
She seems nice enough, funny, sorta into the whole LOTR thing, from the pix Ive seen. She lives up in Yonkers, and works in Manhattan. She's originally from Tajikistan - which going to be the intro subject of the night. I have studied up on this nation, a former USSR state. here's my two favorite resources from my preperation:
http://www.cia.gov/cia/publications/factbook/geos/ti.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tajikistan
Anyhow, oddly enough, she left there at age 5. My dad lived in the neighboring USSR state called Uzbekistan, until he was 6 or 7. Long weird story about dad, but found it funny.
So, I'm all studied up on the Tajiki people, etc.. and then there's plenty more to talk about.
Like the fact that she's blonde. Im not really so into blondes. It not about the jokes, its just not what appeals to me - there are some exceptions. Outside of her home country & blonde comments, Im not sure what else will come up.
But one thing I did notice so far this week - I'm a damned good catch!!!
Y~!
ps - I have a focus group tonite, pre-date! $50 bucks for 20-30 minutes, talking about 'stage-based cultural performances'? Suuuuure! Pays for the date!
We can call her either "girl #2" or "SuperHippie". Over all, a really good, fun flirty date. She wants to see a movie with me Saturday, hoorah for date #2!
As I said yesterday, I answered her ad on Craigslist, and was surprised to see her respond like 2 weeks later. She's a total raving hippie - she has some interesting stories about how she's lived in 3 'communes' & a kibbutz. She is like a power environmentalist, but luckily gave up the vegitarian thing. Odd answer to that "I cant do EVERYTHING, I can only do so much" (bonus points for honesty & for allowing me to eat freely as I want to! woot!)
She's cute, and as I totally guessed, she's totally bi. Which is fine with me. She let me know about it in a very cute & funny way - short version, I said "the people I date..no, I mean the WOMEN I date (blah blah)", her reply "oh for me the PEOPLE I date (blah blah)" said with a shit eating grin on her face. This was funny, especially since it was an hour after I told her my ex wife has moved in with one of her female co workers and decided shes probably gay. Does anyone see a weird theme in my life with women? Hence, I love all SG members!
So, as I told the Goob last night, as I gave the obligatory walk to the subway, I explained my hatred for coffee & cigarettes. She was semi-concerned, I could tell. I noticed that, and said "So now you're thinking, how could I possibly go out with him again? He doesnt drink coffee, hasnt ever smoked a cigarette, and he hasnt even offered to go down on me yet!" - having said this outloud, after about a minute of laughter with her mouth agape, she replied "well, now that you said it, you sort of HAVE to perform it" - my kinda girl!
So, we are on for a 2nd date at the movies this Saturday. Which I also cannot believe, after I told her all the crazy shit I'm into in bed. Phew.
Now, onto the next date:
***Tonite's pre-date analysis:
She seems nice enough, funny, sorta into the whole LOTR thing, from the pix Ive seen. She lives up in Yonkers, and works in Manhattan. She's originally from Tajikistan - which going to be the intro subject of the night. I have studied up on this nation, a former USSR state. here's my two favorite resources from my preperation:
http://www.cia.gov/cia/publications/factbook/geos/ti.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tajikistan
Anyhow, oddly enough, she left there at age 5. My dad lived in the neighboring USSR state called Uzbekistan, until he was 6 or 7. Long weird story about dad, but found it funny.
So, I'm all studied up on the Tajiki people, etc.. and then there's plenty more to talk about.
Like the fact that she's blonde. Im not really so into blondes. It not about the jokes, its just not what appeals to me - there are some exceptions. Outside of her home country & blonde comments, Im not sure what else will come up.
But one thing I did notice so far this week - I'm a damned good catch!!!
Y~!
ps - I have a focus group tonite, pre-date! $50 bucks for 20-30 minutes, talking about 'stage-based cultural performances'? Suuuuure! Pays for the date!
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You didn't sound mean or insensitive. I really appreciate your comments! I've decided that I don't care about the D+ now that I read a shorter paper from the same girl who wrote a racist response to a reading. She can choke on the D+. And yes, I know that I didn't create either situation... I really do KNOW that. I'm just constantly trying to REMEMBER that...