my girlfriend just died leaving me with a 3 year old son.i dont know what to do .every time i look at him i see her.i miss her already.i dont want to fall into darkness for my sons sake .but i dontknow how to handle it.i need advice.if you had this happen please tell me how to handle this. in loving memory of scotts mom TARA. we miss and love you oi oi oi 
squiggly:
I am sorry for your loss. You cannot deny yourself time to mourn. You and your son need each other. It takes time and is the hardest road to travel but you will make it through.
knine:
I do not know your kind of loss but i have lost my dad , I dont know if this helps but you have to go on for your son, you have to be there for him. If the situation was reverse im sure you would want her to go on and try to be happy again. It takes time, lots of time. I was faced at one time of almost loosing my wife and honestly i dont know how i would go on but for the kids sake I would find away. We dont know each other but I never turn down a person who needs to talk. You and your son will be in my thoughts.