amelie

1) Lubricant, Twister and maybe some fisting, design a Twister spinner thing with extra options.
2) Wear a remote controlled wireless dildo, the kind you're supposed to attach to the bottom of your panties like a liner. Walk into very public places. Have your partner randomly 'buzz' you. But...that's more a goof off than an actual turn on.
3) Shave each other smooth down there....or anywhere for that matter. Whatever floats your boat. Prepare for the itchiness 3 days later though.
4) Experiment with low ampage electricity. DO THE RESEARCH!!! I don't want to contribute to an accident.
5) Sensory Deprivation: Wear eyemasks. Aromatherapy to distract the nose. White noise to zone out the ears. Now it's just Touch and Taste. Flavoured Lube is good here.
6) Cook dinner naked together.
7) Exploration. Just take the fucking time to pick one spot and just focus on it to the exclusion of all others.
8) Pain-Pleasure. hot candle wax, laundry pegs...very safe stuff. No sharp objects!!! Infection and contamination are a real possibility.
9) Ice cubes. To rub and insert, to lick and share. Flavoured cubes possible.

I tried my best. I don't like that many of my suggestions are so....mechanical...eugh! isn't it supposed to be more than this? I hope they help.

[Edited on Jan 25, 2003]

Two more:

1) Take a bath together. Not just a hump in the tub. I mean seriously, SERIOUSLY, get each other clean. Buy some fresh sponges that feel like they're scraping your skin off. Aromatic soap. Underneath all nails. A good scalp massage and VO5 Hot Oil Treatment. Does sex necessarily always mean penetration?
2) Mutual Masturbation in public places. It's easier to hide it, get away with, a lot less likely to get in trouble plus you can even sit right next to unsuspecting innocent people. Exciting because it forces you not to jump to the main act. Con: You will be changing your clothes MUCH more often.