Have you ever just wondered if the ones you call friends are really your friends? They slap you on the back, say and do all kinds of things that friends say and do for each other, yet in the back of your mind you really wonder, what their motives are?
You just think that maybe while they are slapping your back one day, they are stabbing your back another. You confront them and they act hurt that you would even think that they arent what they say they are. Ever just want to ask them "you say you are my friend, but as my friend can you really say you were my friend at all?" maybe i am alon in my feelings or maybe i still have yet to trust anyone completely. Is it wrong to not trust people? I've read that trust is something we have to do to live, but is that really true? Can one live life without ever truly trustoing someone? Or is it unhealthy to truthfully think that you trust someone, only to realize you are just making yourself believe that you trust someone? I guess all i am doing is waiting for my friends to let me down. I guess you can say that i am looking forward to failure
You just think that maybe while they are slapping your back one day, they are stabbing your back another. You confront them and they act hurt that you would even think that they arent what they say they are. Ever just want to ask them "you say you are my friend, but as my friend can you really say you were my friend at all?" maybe i am alon in my feelings or maybe i still have yet to trust anyone completely. Is it wrong to not trust people? I've read that trust is something we have to do to live, but is that really true? Can one live life without ever truly trustoing someone? Or is it unhealthy to truthfully think that you trust someone, only to realize you are just making yourself believe that you trust someone? I guess all i am doing is waiting for my friends to let me down. I guess you can say that i am looking forward to failure
i had the same feeling with a group of my friends, and they did end up letting me down, maybe i had subconciously known that they weren't good people all along. or had i jinxed it from the beginning with my worrying?
my friend now, she is hurting because of her lack of trust. we would do anything for her... really... anything. but she can't see that. you can't go through life like that. but people really aren't your friends if you don't trust them.. they are just people you hang out with. figure out why you feel like this.. improve yourself and your trust issues... or get new friends.
sorry to jump in with a comment... when you didn't really ask... trust issues are a big issue with the drama going on in my life right now. hope i helped a little.