Ah, I love nights like last night. See some friends, have fun, get drunk... and proceed to pass out on the couch in a twisted mess in all my clothes, wake up with a raging hangover, drive 40 minutes to get home, then have to sit through a stupid condo association board meeting during which I nearly 
'd 5 times. Ugh. 
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Happy St. Patrick's Day everyone! 
I usually love this holiday, but I think I might stay in tonight. Going to a party at elmcitydrunk's tomorrow night and that's enough. Besides, my wallet will thank me (although, if someone wants to twist my arm about going out tonight I could probably be convinced, lol).
Once again, thanks everyone for their candid answers to my previous...
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I usually love this holiday, but I think I might stay in tonight. Going to a party at elmcitydrunk's tomorrow night and that's enough. Besides, my wallet will thank me (although, if someone wants to twist my arm about going out tonight I could probably be convinced, lol).
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sauda:
You're such a pimp, It's crazy!!! 
~Kitty~
~Kitty~
teena:
thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuu 
having fun for sure 
having fun for sure It's Wednesday, so it must be time for... FRESH QUESTIONS!
1.) Do you feel more at peace when you're in a relationship or not in a relationship?
2.) Name three personality and/or physical traits that you find attractive in a mate.
3.) Have you ever lost a close friend because of your choice of girlfriend or boyfriend? And what was the result (did the relationship...
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1.) Do you feel more at peace when you're in a relationship or not in a relationship?
2.) Name three personality and/or physical traits that you find attractive in a mate.
3.) Have you ever lost a close friend because of your choice of girlfriend or boyfriend? And what was the result (did the relationship...
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janie__:
1.) Do you feel more at peace when you're in a relationship or not in a relationship?
--- I feel more at peace when I'm in a fulfilling relationship
2.) Name three personality and/or physical traits that you find attractive in a mate.
--- Open-mind, nice calves on men & a nice rack on a woman, intelligence
3.) Have you ever lost a close friend because of your choice of girlfriend or boyfriend? And what was the result (did the relationship last or fail, and did you kiss-and-make-up with your friend)?
--- Nope- but I have physically fought with a friend's boyfriend !
4.) Building on the last question, have you ever stop being friends with someone because of their choice of girlfriend or boyfriend?
--- see above
5.) Have you ever had a parent, friend, family member, ex-lover or acquaintance influence you not to date/see someone, and were you glad they intervened or do you regret it?
--- looking back, I wish I would of listened to my mother and friends about my ex boyfriend!
xo
T
--- I feel more at peace when I'm in a fulfilling relationship
2.) Name three personality and/or physical traits that you find attractive in a mate.
--- Open-mind, nice calves on men & a nice rack on a woman, intelligence
3.) Have you ever lost a close friend because of your choice of girlfriend or boyfriend? And what was the result (did the relationship last or fail, and did you kiss-and-make-up with your friend)?
--- Nope- but I have physically fought with a friend's boyfriend !
4.) Building on the last question, have you ever stop being friends with someone because of their choice of girlfriend or boyfriend?
--- see above
5.) Have you ever had a parent, friend, family member, ex-lover or acquaintance influence you not to date/see someone, and were you glad they intervened or do you regret it?
--- looking back, I wish I would of listened to my mother and friends about my ex boyfriend!
xo
T
sarahg:
1.) In one.. if it's good. But I'm fine when I'm not in a relationship. It's just nice when you're lucky enough to be in a good one.
2.) Intelligence, humor, kindness/thoughtfulness.
3.) No. But some friends have lost me through their choices.
4.) See above. Yes. Nothing horrible.. just drifting. Crowd change happens everywhere.
5.) I've had friends "warn" me about some people before. Never really an intervention, but just a little bit of a "just so you know.." kind of thing. I'm ok with advice, even if I don't always follow it. I think for the most part, all the advice I've been given from friends and family has been good, useful info.
2.) Intelligence, humor, kindness/thoughtfulness.
3.) No. But some friends have lost me through their choices.
4.) See above. Yes. Nothing horrible.. just drifting. Crowd change happens everywhere.
5.) I've had friends "warn" me about some people before. Never really an intervention, but just a little bit of a "just so you know.." kind of thing. I'm ok with advice, even if I don't always follow it. I think for the most part, all the advice I've been given from friends and family has been good, useful info.
Yawn! Bored.
Nothing much to report today. Just chilling before I go run some errands before work... where I'll be bored out of my mind.
Big week of drinking ahead; Flux in New Haven tomorrow with DarkRabbit, elmcitydrunk and others... St. Patrick's Day (hmmmmm, where should I go?)... then back up to New Haven Friday for elmcitydrunk's party.
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Nothing much to report today. Just chilling before I go run some errands before work... where I'll be bored out of my mind.
Big week of drinking ahead; Flux in New Haven tomorrow with DarkRabbit, elmcitydrunk and others... St. Patrick's Day (hmmmmm, where should I go?)... then back up to New Haven Friday for elmcitydrunk's party.
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darkrabbit:
Define serious... like life threatening or put in the hospital? 
Angelina Jolie. I'd say "Hey." Give a little sideways grin. Then go on my way.
I am very successful at being me
Several. I curse being a gentleman sometimes... So much luvin I turned down... BUT. I wouldn't be me if I had meaningless sex, now would I?
I don't watch baseball.
Angelina Jolie. I'd say "Hey." Give a little sideways grin. Then go on my way.
I am very successful at being me
Several. I curse being a gentleman sometimes... So much luvin I turned down... BUT. I wouldn't be me if I had meaningless sex, now would I?
I don't watch baseball.
hadesjones:
Ok I've been meaning to jump into your questions AND to thank you for you compliment on the new do.
So here we go.....thanks, I like the new hair too
AND.....
1.) Have you ever seriously injured someone? YES I BROKE AN OLDER KIDS FOOT WITH A BIG ROCK WHEN I WAS ABOUT 6 - HE DESERVED IT, VERY LOOOONG STORY.
2.) Who would you rather meet, Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, and what would you say to them? ANGELINA HANDS DOWN...I'VE GOT SOME GREAT PICS OF HER FROM MY VACATION TO SHARE!!! I DON'T THINK I'D BE ABLE TO SAY MUCH - I WATCHED HER POLITELY PASS ON MORE THAN HALF A DOZEN MARRIAGE PROPOSALS FROM GUYS AND GIRLS SO I KNOW I DON'T HAVE A SHOT.
3.) Do you consider yourself to be successful? SO FAR SO GOOD. SUCCESS IS NOT ONLY MEASURED IN MONEY.
4.) Is there a person in your past or present who you only had one date with, but who you still think about and regret that that date did not lead to more? NOPE.
5.) What is your favorite baseball team, and name 3 players on it. SORRY CHARLIE NO BASEBALL FOR ME.
And there it is in a nutshell
Hades
So here we go.....thanks, I like the new hair too
AND.....
1.) Have you ever seriously injured someone? YES I BROKE AN OLDER KIDS FOOT WITH A BIG ROCK WHEN I WAS ABOUT 6 - HE DESERVED IT, VERY LOOOONG STORY.
2.) Who would you rather meet, Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, and what would you say to them? ANGELINA HANDS DOWN...I'VE GOT SOME GREAT PICS OF HER FROM MY VACATION TO SHARE!!! I DON'T THINK I'D BE ABLE TO SAY MUCH - I WATCHED HER POLITELY PASS ON MORE THAN HALF A DOZEN MARRIAGE PROPOSALS FROM GUYS AND GIRLS SO I KNOW I DON'T HAVE A SHOT.
3.) Do you consider yourself to be successful? SO FAR SO GOOD. SUCCESS IS NOT ONLY MEASURED IN MONEY.
4.) Is there a person in your past or present who you only had one date with, but who you still think about and regret that that date did not lead to more? NOPE.
5.) What is your favorite baseball team, and name 3 players on it. SORRY CHARLIE NO BASEBALL FOR ME.
And there it is in a nutshell
Hades
Thought I'd update, not because I have anything interesting to say, but just because... because... hell, I don't know why.
I'm tired from bartending last night, so I think I'm going to go take a nap; maybe watch some NASCAR and college hoops. Or, maybe I'll pop in the 10th anniversay edition of Heat that I bought a couple of weeks ago.
This week, it's...
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I'm tired from bartending last night, so I think I'm going to go take a nap; maybe watch some NASCAR and college hoops. Or, maybe I'll pop in the 10th anniversay edition of Heat that I bought a couple of weeks ago.
This week, it's...
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shoegal:
ohhhhh....you're dominant and i'm submissive. heh, we could have fun.
i dunno why i'm submissive in bed. ...probably because i'm not at all submissive in every other ascept of my life. its fun to let the other person take charge and follow their....i dont wanna say orders....cause its never been orders...but their lead...? something.
i'm sorry i've been soooo bad about commenting back to you and emailing. don't get mad at me.
heh. maybe i can email you about my bad behavior and you can tell me if i deserve to be punished or not. 
i dunno why i'm submissive in bed. ...probably because i'm not at all submissive in every other ascept of my life. its fun to let the other person take charge and follow their....i dont wanna say orders....cause its never been orders...but their lead...? something.
i'm sorry i've been soooo bad about commenting back to you and emailing. don't get mad at me.
heh. maybe i can email you about my bad behavior and you can tell me if i deserve to be punished or not.
sauda:
1.) Do you consider yourself a dominant or a submissive, and why?
~~~I switch, but lean submissive.
2.) And, have you acted on these desires, or if not, how would you like to?
~~~Yes I have. I am all about the bondage and am looking deeper into shibari, pet play is of increasing pleasure, and I could really use a collar!
~Kitty~
~~~I switch, but lean submissive.
2.) And, have you acted on these desires, or if not, how would you like to?
~~~Yes I have. I am all about the bondage and am looking deeper into shibari, pet play is of increasing pleasure, and I could really use a collar!
~Kitty~
As most of you know, I watch a fair amount of sports on TV, but today I saw something that I've never seen before and it was simply amazing -- and heart-wrenching -- to behold...
Championship game of the Conference USA college basketball tourney between Memphis and Louisville, if Memphis won, they would go to the NCAA tournament. Louisville, a very good team this year...
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Championship game of the Conference USA college basketball tourney between Memphis and Louisville, if Memphis won, they would go to the NCAA tournament. Louisville, a very good team this year...
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elcaminobill:
Ya I remember that race. This last year had a lot of drama, so it was bad as 24 all the way!
This last year had a lot of drama, so it was bad as 24 all the way!
sarahg:
that is a dramatic moment. that's a story for sports fans but a life long bad memory for him.
Hi, Allied here. Hope you're well. Uh, can I ask you a question? Could you explain to me the point of the dating profile? I mean, I filled mine out but what the hell am I supposed to do with it? And, am I supposed to pay attention to it in other people's profiles?
Also, what does it mean to bookmark someone as interesting?
Oh,...
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Also, what does it mean to bookmark someone as interesting?
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luckyp:
I ignore the dating profile altogether.
Cut out sugar, white flour and processed foods. Eat 5 veg/fruits a day, dink AT LEAST 8 glasses of H2O. Avoid fried foods and high fat foods. Eat three small meals and 3 "snacks" per day, instead of 3 large meals. Never skip breakfast. If you follow these rules, you WILL have more energy.
--l*P
Cut out sugar, white flour and processed foods. Eat 5 veg/fruits a day, dink AT LEAST 8 glasses of H2O. Avoid fried foods and high fat foods. Eat three small meals and 3 "snacks" per day, instead of 3 large meals. Never skip breakfast. If you follow these rules, you WILL have more energy.
--l*P
gilda22:
iPod minis are for suckers!...j/k...sort of.
OK, Kiddies... It's time for more probing questions!
Once again, you guys stepped up quickly and got to 10 responses so here are my answers...
1.) Of the following, who would you vote for in 2008: John McCain, Hilary Clinton, Rudy Guiliani or John Kerry? Colin Powell or Condi Rice. No seriously, this is tough for me because I voted for Kerry in this past...
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Once again, you guys stepped up quickly and got to 10 responses so here are my answers...
1.) Of the following, who would you vote for in 2008: John McCain, Hilary Clinton, Rudy Guiliani or John Kerry? Colin Powell or Condi Rice.
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delores:
1. Kerry or Clinton...i voted Kerry last year..but i think i'd be partial to the idea of having a woman leader!
2. i have a savings account but there's nothing in it. they take $3 out each month so they slowly deplete all my money. i'm going to close it and open one at a credit union. but i want to save for a car, a place of my own (doesn't have to be a house), a tattoo (when i move out), and there are some medical bills that need paid. i'd like all those other things, but yeah, my job sucks.
3. I work at JC Penney's Homestore in the mall. it's a love hate relationship. it's a pretty easy job and i like almost everyone i work with. i've got some really good friends there. the managment is pretty cool for the most part. but i hate it cause i dont get enough hours, i hate the dress code, and i hate how we let our customers walk all over us.
4. Jack White, my lil' sis Raisa, my big sis Heather.
5. my ex was half hispanic. we were togeather for 9 months.
6. hell yeah... hair grows so that's ok. but w/ the tattoo if it was hideous i'd tease them forever.
7. eh...sometimes.
8. nope.
9. a pulitzer.
10. that really depends...
2. i have a savings account but there's nothing in it. they take $3 out each month so they slowly deplete all my money. i'm going to close it and open one at a credit union. but i want to save for a car, a place of my own (doesn't have to be a house), a tattoo (when i move out), and there are some medical bills that need paid. i'd like all those other things, but yeah, my job sucks.
3. I work at JC Penney's Homestore in the mall. it's a love hate relationship. it's a pretty easy job and i like almost everyone i work with. i've got some really good friends there. the managment is pretty cool for the most part. but i hate it cause i dont get enough hours, i hate the dress code, and i hate how we let our customers walk all over us.
4. Jack White, my lil' sis Raisa, my big sis Heather.
5. my ex was half hispanic. we were togeather for 9 months.
6. hell yeah... hair grows so that's ok. but w/ the tattoo if it was hideous i'd tease them forever.
7. eh...sometimes.
8. nope.
9. a pulitzer.
10. that really depends...
kinkerbelle:
thank you. how are you doing?
how are you doing?Wow, 21 people answered my little questionaire! Thank you, that was a lot of fun. I learned so much about my SG friends (btw, if you haven't taken the quiz and want to, go back one journal entry).
Here are some of the things I learned: 1.) Apparently no one pays any attention to President Bush and his proposals, or they just plain hate the...
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isadore:
I missed the questionnaire. I think your user pic is very cute. You have such a friendly warm smile in it.
I don't own much porn. I have some old magazines & one old VHS, which I haven't watched in ages. When I want tha pr0n, I just go to http://www.pinkworld.com! No need to store the stuff when you can get "new" stuff for free online anytime!!!
I pay attention to Bush's b.s. - but you knew that already. I made a big post of news stories on that front in my LJ today. The new bankruptcy bill, and one that they are trying to pass which would make specialty hospitals illegal!!!
Crazy shit mang!!! 
Small kids freak me out. There were some kids running around at the restaurant I was at tonight- shrieking at ear-piercing levels!!!! What's ironic is that I remember being that small & noisy & rambunctious. I'm scared of children in some weird way, as I suspect most non-parents on this site are. To know you would have that much responsibility & influence in another person's life is mindboggling!!!
I hate the wrestling federation b.s. Maybe even more than I hate Bush...
I don't own much porn. I have some old magazines & one old VHS, which I haven't watched in ages. When I want tha pr0n, I just go to http://www.pinkworld.com! No need to store the stuff when you can get "new" stuff for free online anytime!!!
I pay attention to Bush's b.s. - but you knew that already. I made a big post of news stories on that front in my LJ today. The new bankruptcy bill, and one that they are trying to pass which would make specialty hospitals illegal!!!
Crazy shit mang!!!
Small kids freak me out. There were some kids running around at the restaurant I was at tonight- shrieking at ear-piercing levels!!!!
What's ironic is that I remember being that small & noisy & rambunctious. I'm scared of children in some weird way, as I suspect most non-parents on this site are. To know you would have that much responsibility & influence in another person's life is mindboggling!!!
I hate the wrestling federation b.s. Maybe even more than I hate Bush...
ampersandwich:
ambiean is jus crazzzzzzy in me!
Y~!
Y~!
Woods beat Mickelson in a thrilling finish at Doral... Ohio State knocked off #1-ranked and undefeated Illinois by a point... UNC beat Duke... It's days like this when I love being a sports-obsessed guy. And, the baseball season starts in less than a month!
I think my boy Yillie is going to be Will Smith to my Kevin James. Should be interesting, especially considering he...
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southernbelle:
Thanks so much for answering my questions....I love learning about everyone!! Just for that, you get my answers now!!
1.) Do you support the President's plan for Social Security? As much as I hate to admit it, I do to a certain extent. At least he has recognized that something needs to be done, I am just not sure his ideas for correcting it will work.
2.) Who on this site do you have a crush on but they have no idea that you like them? Everyone knows!
3.) What's your next tattoo? I want to expand the sun on my back with stars....that may be a while though, need some cash flow!
4.) Which do you like better, little kids or little animals (like puppies or kittens)? I love kids!! They are just the best, even if they don't realize that they are making you happy!
5.) Which would you rather your boyfriend be obsessed with, pro wrestling, NASCAR or bass fishing? NASCAR!! I can handle that, I'll even watch it on occasion!!
6.) Which would you prefer your girlfriend be obsessed with, Oprah, soap operas or shopping? I've never had a girlfriend, but I would have to say Oprah...that way she isn't out spending all kinds of money!
7.) Should I change my profile pic? No way, it's cute!
8.) Which would you rather be forced to do, live back home with your parents or live with two roommates you don't like? Considering I am living with my dad right now to save money, I would say living with him!
9.) Name a song on your iPod that you're embarrassed to admit that you like. Candy Shop - 50 Cent
10.) Do you have a porn stash, and if so, name three titles in it? I own one porn video, Search for the Snow Leopard....the only other 2 things in the bag are 2 vibrators and some lube!
Have a great day!
Just for that, you get my answers now!!
1.) Do you support the President's plan for Social Security? As much as I hate to admit it, I do to a certain extent. At least he has recognized that something needs to be done, I am just not sure his ideas for correcting it will work.
2.) Who on this site do you have a crush on but they have no idea that you like them? Everyone knows!
3.) What's your next tattoo? I want to expand the sun on my back with stars....that may be a while though, need some cash flow!
4.) Which do you like better, little kids or little animals (like puppies or kittens)? I love kids!!
They are just the best, even if they don't realize that they are making you happy!
5.) Which would you rather your boyfriend be obsessed with, pro wrestling, NASCAR or bass fishing? NASCAR!! I can handle that, I'll even watch it on occasion!!
6.) Which would you prefer your girlfriend be obsessed with, Oprah, soap operas or shopping? I've never had a girlfriend, but I would have to say Oprah...that way she isn't out spending all kinds of money!
7.) Should I change my profile pic? No way, it's cute!
8.) Which would you rather be forced to do, live back home with your parents or live with two roommates you don't like? Considering I am living with my dad right now to save money, I would say living with him!
9.) Name a song on your iPod that you're embarrassed to admit that you like. Candy Shop - 50 Cent
10.) Do you have a porn stash, and if so, name three titles in it? I own one porn video, Search for the Snow Leopard....the only other 2 things in the bag are 2 vibrators and some lube!
Have a great day!
jetsabel:
1.) I do not support the president whatsoever
2.) Um...I don't think I have any crushes, but Voltaire is my idol
3.) I don't have any tattoos yet...
4.) kittens are the best....you're stuck with kids
5.) Ahh NO! Probably bass fishing cause then he'd get along with my outdoorsman father better
6.) Well if I had a girlfriend I'd say shopping so she could buy me stuff
7.) Depends on what your new pic will be
8.) I'd rather live with my parents because then I could be a freeloader
9.) probably half of my collection, but Faded by SoulDecision...it makes me laugh so hard
10.) Who needs a porn stash when you have SG? Uh...oh...that kind of porn stash
2.) Um...I don't think I have any crushes, but Voltaire is my idol
3.) I don't have any tattoos yet...
4.) kittens are the best....you're stuck with kids
5.) Ahh NO! Probably bass fishing cause then he'd get along with my outdoorsman father better
6.) Well if I had a girlfriend I'd say shopping so she could buy me stuff
7.) Depends on what your new pic will be
8.) I'd rather live with my parents because then I could be a freeloader
9.) probably half of my collection, but Faded by SoulDecision...it makes me laugh so hard
10.) Who needs a porn stash when you have SG? Uh...oh...that kind of porn stash
look into it!
Y~!