alidora

Is it just me, or did you accumulate many friends in the last few months??

but you pretty much hit it. yes. grass is always greener and whatnot. would it be a good thing to be content with where we are, though? should there not always be a strive for something better? isn't that what motivates us to be something better? and whatnot?

plus, we lose interest in what we have because it can no longer be pursued. the motivation lies in the pursuit. once our pursuit is caught, then what's the point. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaand so forth...

I think this cycle is a reflection of the greed we are nurtured to develop....of course we want the other thing, it is new and shiny and don't forget the more we have than the more we are worth to someone.....or at least to make us feel we are worth anything. Something different we want this need is a struggle to not go unnoticed among the masses...a missing piece of identity, out of the fear we will be left behind if we stay where we are and don't move ahead... I love these little discussions we have. bye bye