Well, it was an eventful day. I am not going to lie about my fiance, she is fucking gorgeous. Everywhere we go someone tries to hit on her, guy or girl, it doesnt matter. I didnt realize she was beautiful until after we were living together. I mean, she has always caught my eye, but, didnt realize that she caught everyone elses as well. I asked her to marry me on her birthday which I thought was a good touch. Since then, she has expressed her interest in women, which I really dont care for, but try to be supportive as possible. (no I do not want 3soms with her). She started seeing a lady she worked with on a regular basis. The lady knew of me and started falling for Heidi (my fiance) in a big way. Intervention time. Sunny was trying to push me out of the program and be in a relationship with Heidi. Then Heidi woke up and saw what was what. She says she loves me but insists on the open relationship and still hanging out with Sunny. I am not a total dick and can see Heidi has no interest in Sunny except to have a little fun now and again and even that has halted.
Tonight while at work, Heidi texted me and told me she was going to the gay bar she likes to goto with Sunny and have some fun. Just to see her reaction, I said sounds like fun and that i would be attending an after hours party with people I work with. Yes there really was a party, Yes, i was invited, No, I didnt really want to go. For those who dont really know me much, i am a DJ in a strip club. Her reaction was exactly as predicted. She flipped out, she didnt want me to go. I told her I would be home the following morning (something that has been said to me on more than 1 occasion). The reply I got was if i stayed out all night, our relationship would be over.
Am I to take it that she is allowed to (lets be frank) fuck other women when she feels like it. But, when I say i am going to a friends house to have some cocktails (with her knowing I dont wish to be sexual with anyone but her) she flipped out. I have been given permission to date, hang out, sleep over, fuck, suck, have anal sex, whatever I wish to with any other woman, as long as I do not hide it from Heidi. The second I do not come home from work or show interest in something other than what has to do with her, she loses her mind. I am confused, but not nearly as much as she is......Sigh
I am in love with her and we can have a good future, she needs to grow up.
Tonight while at work, Heidi texted me and told me she was going to the gay bar she likes to goto with Sunny and have some fun. Just to see her reaction, I said sounds like fun and that i would be attending an after hours party with people I work with. Yes there really was a party, Yes, i was invited, No, I didnt really want to go. For those who dont really know me much, i am a DJ in a strip club. Her reaction was exactly as predicted. She flipped out, she didnt want me to go. I told her I would be home the following morning (something that has been said to me on more than 1 occasion). The reply I got was if i stayed out all night, our relationship would be over.
Am I to take it that she is allowed to (lets be frank) fuck other women when she feels like it. But, when I say i am going to a friends house to have some cocktails (with her knowing I dont wish to be sexual with anyone but her) she flipped out. I have been given permission to date, hang out, sleep over, fuck, suck, have anal sex, whatever I wish to with any other woman, as long as I do not hide it from Heidi. The second I do not come home from work or show interest in something other than what has to do with her, she loses her mind. I am confused, but not nearly as much as she is......Sigh
I am in love with her and we can have a good future, she needs to grow up.