alexsandria

Not exactly a staggering work of sociological genius, but I suppose if you want to take pot shots at WeHo club skanks, I'm sure they won't notice.

Bit of a sexist position to take though, don't you think?

Don't get me wrong, I'm perfectly satisfied with just being her friend. In fact, I have a policy of not having sex with anyone I'm not already friends with. All I'm saying is that I wouldn't mind us doing more, especially since that would almost assuredly lead to spending more time with her. And the fact that I would enjoy her company in bed, and in the shower, and on the dining room table, and... does not in any way reflect on my enjoyment of time spent together clothed.

And, on a side note, I am fucking other people. I just, you know, think I would enjoy fucking her more. If she disagrees, it's a shame, but as I'm still getting mine somewhere else, I'm hardly in much of a position to complain, am I?

As for the blog post, I don't even necessarily disagree with what you're saying and, words you used aside, I was under no illusion that you are in any way actually sexist. However, I still think your examination of the issue is a bit cursory. For example, your conclusion seems to depend on the assumption that these girls are looking for Mr. Right. If they are actually looking for Mr. Tonight, so to speak, one could argue they are acting in what could be considered the proper fashion to achieve their desire. You are free, of course, to debate the long-term value of one-night stands, but that's a different subject.

Moreover, if, as you contend, society has made these girls this way (and we'll ignore, for the moment, the role of self-determination in deciding one's course of action), then simply chastising the girls (even assuming they cared and/or read your blog) doesn't really go far enough, which was more the thrust of my original comment. The sociological/psychological implications of such behavior interest me as well and I'd be happy to discuss it further, but I think, for a blog comment, I've already gone on long enough.