I don't know what to do.
My best friend Casey is completely screwing up her life right now. She is stuck in a small town in Ohio and she's hanging out with complete losers. These kids are 23 or so years old and haven't done anything since graduating high school. She is calling one of them her boyfriend. This boyfriend of hers is a complete drug addict. As a matter of fact his mother sells drugs. Now I'm not talking about the occasional coke user. I mean he does everything, always on something, occasional HEROINE user!
I'm loosing my best friend to a bunch of idiot losers. I have rescued my best friend from stupid situations so many times, but this time it just isn't possible. I have no way of rescuing her this time and it's killing me.
What am I going to do?
My best friend Casey is completely screwing up her life right now. She is stuck in a small town in Ohio and she's hanging out with complete losers. These kids are 23 or so years old and haven't done anything since graduating high school. She is calling one of them her boyfriend. This boyfriend of hers is a complete drug addict. As a matter of fact his mother sells drugs. Now I'm not talking about the occasional coke user. I mean he does everything, always on something, occasional HEROINE user!
I'm loosing my best friend to a bunch of idiot losers. I have rescued my best friend from stupid situations so many times, but this time it just isn't possible. I have no way of rescuing her this time and it's killing me.
What am I going to do?
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If there's anyway you can get her to come out and visit you WITHOUT the "boyfriend" then you'd be doing her a great deal of good just by having her see a different way of living first hand. But make sure you don't try and take responsibility for her. You absolutely have to keep in mind that it's her issue, not yours.
To be incredibly trite, you can show her the door but only she can walk through it.
Here's me sending you good luck thoughts anyways...
You really seem to care about her - so you need to have a TRUE to LIFE, no BULLSHIT talk with her and let her know how this makes you feel..
Let her know that you love her - but what she's doing really hurts you....