Well, Dawn was here for TG. She was s'posed to get in Monday at 8:30 or thereabouts, but apparently Atlanta weather delayed the flight, and she didn't get in until about 1 am. There were like 4 delays, and I sat at work until like 12:30 am. I was pretty friggin' po'd. The visit was ok, but I'm pretty sure that that's the last one.
First, I can't carry on a relationship with somebody from 400 miles away.
Second, we broke a condom!
Her doctor called in a scrip for Plan B, but if she were to end up pregnant.... she wouldn't get an abortion, and she wouldn't put it up for adoption, and my life would be ruined. I need somebody that's on my page with respect to accidental pregnancy.
Sorta related, she already has 2 kids. They seem like good kids, but it's forced me to think about what I want for the next dozen years. And I'm ever more sure that kids aren't it.
I'm not ashamed to admit that I'm selfish. I want somebody to myself, that I can jet off to Europe or CR with on no notice, without having to figure out what to do with kids. I like the disposable income that would evaporate if I had kids.
Sooo... I gotta let 'er down.
First, I can't carry on a relationship with somebody from 400 miles away.
Second, we broke a condom!
Her doctor called in a scrip for Plan B, but if she were to end up pregnant.... she wouldn't get an abortion, and she wouldn't put it up for adoption, and my life would be ruined. I need somebody that's on my page with respect to accidental pregnancy.
Sorta related, she already has 2 kids. They seem like good kids, but it's forced me to think about what I want for the next dozen years. And I'm ever more sure that kids aren't it.
I'm not ashamed to admit that I'm selfish. I want somebody to myself, that I can jet off to Europe or CR with on no notice, without having to figure out what to do with kids. I like the disposable income that would evaporate if I had kids.
Sooo... I gotta let 'er down.
seriously. trapping a man like that? disgusting.