So, Howdie ya'll!!
Thanks for all the good thoughts. Things have been much better lately. A whole lot busier anyway. My birthday was last Sunday, my son's is this Wednesday, got school fundraisers and pictures for both boys, Halloween, the Upstate SGNY fall shindig going on, and work is busy this time of year... so whoohoo, Alannah is holding on to her hat on the rollercoaster this month!
Things are really looking up though. The ex is starting to go to a new therapist, and I have simply stopped entertaining any serious discussions with him. Everybody around me has for months now told me to stop worrying so much and being so involved with his life. Now I have finally gotten pissed off enough to cut the ties somewhat. I am spending much less time around him altogether, which certainly does wonders for my stress level. And he seems to spend less time now dwelling on what I do... at least for the last couple of days... hehehe
I also have a few more distractions right now. I went on a date last night, totally unplanned... just happened to run into a guy I've known for about a year now, after not seeing him in the last couple of months. Turns out he and his live-in girlfriend broke up a little over a month ago, so we had a few drinks, then went back to his place and just talked until about 7:30 this morning. It was nice. I also will be bringing a date to the fall shindig, not the same one... hehehe... Alannah is playing the field a bit!!! Go me!!
I'm still staying active and working out. Also been spending quite a bit of time with my biker badboy sparring partner... who by the way gave me a very lovely and very expensive opal and diamond necklace for my birthday! Yay for that!!!!! Diamonds rock!!!!! And as for the question I posed in my last blog... bad boys really are the best... it's not just a matter of relativity. He really is great to me, and for me... aside for the constant bruising. But I am a glutten for punishment, and I really do get off on the rush of it all!
Well all, I'm off for the night. Gotta start planning a Mexican Fiesta for my biggest baby. Any ideas, besides a pinata??
Thanks for all the good thoughts. Things have been much better lately. A whole lot busier anyway. My birthday was last Sunday, my son's is this Wednesday, got school fundraisers and pictures for both boys, Halloween, the Upstate SGNY fall shindig going on, and work is busy this time of year... so whoohoo, Alannah is holding on to her hat on the rollercoaster this month!
Things are really looking up though. The ex is starting to go to a new therapist, and I have simply stopped entertaining any serious discussions with him. Everybody around me has for months now told me to stop worrying so much and being so involved with his life. Now I have finally gotten pissed off enough to cut the ties somewhat. I am spending much less time around him altogether, which certainly does wonders for my stress level. And he seems to spend less time now dwelling on what I do... at least for the last couple of days... hehehe
I also have a few more distractions right now. I went on a date last night, totally unplanned... just happened to run into a guy I've known for about a year now, after not seeing him in the last couple of months. Turns out he and his live-in girlfriend broke up a little over a month ago, so we had a few drinks, then went back to his place and just talked until about 7:30 this morning. It was nice. I also will be bringing a date to the fall shindig, not the same one... hehehe... Alannah is playing the field a bit!!! Go me!!
I'm still staying active and working out. Also been spending quite a bit of time with my biker badboy sparring partner... who by the way gave me a very lovely and very expensive opal and diamond necklace for my birthday! Yay for that!!!!! Diamonds rock!!!!! And as for the question I posed in my last blog... bad boys really are the best... it's not just a matter of relativity. He really is great to me, and for me... aside for the constant bruising. But I am a glutten for punishment, and I really do get off on the rush of it all!
Well all, I'm off for the night. Gotta start planning a Mexican Fiesta for my biggest baby. Any ideas, besides a pinata??
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flashmo:
Just "talking" until 7:30am? (we called it "knockin' boots or doing laundry") 
flashmo:
Sorry to hear about your Mom.