So I've been feeling really fucked up about my friendship with my best friend of thirteen years. Its hard to be around him anymore because it's like he doesn't realize that we have grown up. He doesn't work, He doesn't have a car and when he takes the train out to visit all he does is piss me off. I use to see him one every few months but now I think I can deal with once every few years. He is wicked loyal and would do anything for anyone. When he is here he starts drinking at eight in the fucking morning, which leads him to being a annoying fuck at the time when I am just waking up, He leaves beer cans all over the living room and hides them under the couch when he doesn't feel like getting up.
He fucking comes here and thinks he can do whatever the fuck he wants. He hits on my female friends, which I have plenty of, and I don't fucking care about that, but then if he is shot down he will lean over and start talking to another one and then they think he is a total ass and I end up apologizing for the fucker all of the time.
When I want to hang out with him I let him come up but after a day I tell him I have plans and that he has to go back the fuck home. He had an awesome Finacee who worked and let him stay home. She bought him a jeep, financed him to go to Film School in New York. She was a stewardess so he could fly anywhere for free. She cooked for him constantly and never asked him to help out around the house and he had enough of her because he thought she nagged him about getting a job and stuff.
Its tough hanging out with someone he doesn't realize that the party can go on as long as you want it to but sometimes you have to fucking think of your future. Do you want Health Insurance? A 401K, a home, a family, a fucking future? Hell, something more than living at home with your mother for the rest of your life and not ever having a job.
The obnoxiousness and lack of respect he exhibits is just intolerable most of the time. He'll want me to buy him drinks and other things because he never has money. Him and I were unstoppable fuckers years ago but people change, you can't think partying is the way to go forever, well you can but be prepared to be homeless, unloved, unwanted and dying alone. That will be your fate, trust me.
There is a balance one must learn to walk between partying and social responsiblity as one grows older, I fucking hope he learns it before it is too late.......This was wayyyyy too much seriousness for me. Probably because I haven't returned his calls in two weeks. I think it is because I want him to get the point, hey dude, we aren't Seventeen anymore.........Fucking L8er...............AJ
He fucking comes here and thinks he can do whatever the fuck he wants. He hits on my female friends, which I have plenty of, and I don't fucking care about that, but then if he is shot down he will lean over and start talking to another one and then they think he is a total ass and I end up apologizing for the fucker all of the time.
When I want to hang out with him I let him come up but after a day I tell him I have plans and that he has to go back the fuck home. He had an awesome Finacee who worked and let him stay home. She bought him a jeep, financed him to go to Film School in New York. She was a stewardess so he could fly anywhere for free. She cooked for him constantly and never asked him to help out around the house and he had enough of her because he thought she nagged him about getting a job and stuff.
Its tough hanging out with someone he doesn't realize that the party can go on as long as you want it to but sometimes you have to fucking think of your future. Do you want Health Insurance? A 401K, a home, a family, a fucking future? Hell, something more than living at home with your mother for the rest of your life and not ever having a job.
The obnoxiousness and lack of respect he exhibits is just intolerable most of the time. He'll want me to buy him drinks and other things because he never has money. Him and I were unstoppable fuckers years ago but people change, you can't think partying is the way to go forever, well you can but be prepared to be homeless, unloved, unwanted and dying alone. That will be your fate, trust me.
There is a balance one must learn to walk between partying and social responsiblity as one grows older, I fucking hope he learns it before it is too late.......This was wayyyyy too much seriousness for me. Probably because I haven't returned his calls in two weeks. I think it is because I want him to get the point, hey dude, we aren't Seventeen anymore.........Fucking L8er...............AJ
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You may have known him for 13 years, but that doesn't matter if he annoys the fucking crap out of you!
He's a losers and he holds you back, and if that's the way he treats you and your friends, he doesn't respect you one bit and he isn't worth having as a friend, he'll only drag you down.
I used to hang on to friends way too long as well, but that only cost me energy without getting anything back.
I miss my last best friend, but the things she did were unforgiveable and if she thinks she can treat a person (any person) that way, she's completely off. I hope she learned that by losing me as a friend, and if she's still too blind to see, well then at least I'm not stuck with her...
*hug*