Well, poop.
I'm not sure I'm very good at this boyfriend stuff, which is probably why I've been single most of my life. I mean I'm really trying because I like my girlfriend a lot, but I guess I don't really know how to be a good boyfriend. It's been so long since I've even attempted a relationship that I seem to have forgotten how to do it. I like to think I treat her well. I treat her like she's the most important person in the world. I do nice things for her all the time. I buy her things. I take her places. I make her laugh uncontrollably. Apparently way more than what she's used to when it comes to sex. She tells me all the time that I'm the best thing to ever happen to her. Yet, I haven't the slightest clue what it means when she starts to distance herself from me. Have I done something wrong? Am I not doing something I should be doing?
I noticed her acting a little strange after I took her on a date at this local theme park the other day because it's one of her favorite places to go and has been talking about it for awhile. She seemed to be having fun, well, except when we rode this really spinny ride and got a bit nauseous. I took her home afterwards and we laid on the couch and watched a movie, but when it came time for me to go home she seemed to be pushing me away a little, and didn't seem to want to kiss me goodbye. Now I can't seem to get a hold of her for some reason, and usually if she's just not home she calls me from wherever she is, but I haven't heard from her all night and it bothers me a bit. Maybe I'm just thinking into it too much. I don't really know. I just wish I could understand girls a little when they start acting differently, but I suppose every guy does.
Any help? Advice? Anything?
It's very rare I actually like someone enough to date them, and it would kill me to fuck it up already.
I'm not sure I'm very good at this boyfriend stuff, which is probably why I've been single most of my life. I mean I'm really trying because I like my girlfriend a lot, but I guess I don't really know how to be a good boyfriend. It's been so long since I've even attempted a relationship that I seem to have forgotten how to do it. I like to think I treat her well. I treat her like she's the most important person in the world. I do nice things for her all the time. I buy her things. I take her places. I make her laugh uncontrollably. Apparently way more than what she's used to when it comes to sex. She tells me all the time that I'm the best thing to ever happen to her. Yet, I haven't the slightest clue what it means when she starts to distance herself from me. Have I done something wrong? Am I not doing something I should be doing?
I noticed her acting a little strange after I took her on a date at this local theme park the other day because it's one of her favorite places to go and has been talking about it for awhile. She seemed to be having fun, well, except when we rode this really spinny ride and got a bit nauseous. I took her home afterwards and we laid on the couch and watched a movie, but when it came time for me to go home she seemed to be pushing me away a little, and didn't seem to want to kiss me goodbye. Now I can't seem to get a hold of her for some reason, and usually if she's just not home she calls me from wherever she is, but I haven't heard from her all night and it bothers me a bit. Maybe I'm just thinking into it too much. I don't really know. I just wish I could understand girls a little when they start acting differently, but I suppose every guy does.
Any help? Advice? Anything?
It's very rare I actually like someone enough to date them, and it would kill me to fuck it up already.
If she is ignoring you maybe she thinks you guys spend too much time together and needs her space
Unless you know she is still talking to her ex, that always causes problems, you should find out if she talks with any of her exs.
im glad that its going better for you ox