So since I've been back, I've noticed something about SG. The comments on the girls photo's are a lot more explicit than they used to be. Maybe it's my memories playing tricks on me, but I don't remember their being lots of comments about wanting to so-and-so in the ass or "needing" to suck on someone's tits. I realize that this is site features girls taking off their clothes, and I also know that if the person in question doesn't complain, then maybe I'm off-kilter to be annoyed by it.
I just think it's disrespectful. I know that you'd never really compliment a stranger on her body in real life (at least not without the expectation of getting slapped), but at the same time, a lot of comments are just treating the person in the photograph like a piece of meat. And it's one thing to say a set is incredible, or even that a particular body part is beautiful. I'm not a prude I don't think. But graphic statements of wanting to fuck someone or do some physical violence to them? Really? I try and be open minded about it, but I can't make myself see it as kosher.
Is it just me? I the past respectfulness of years gone by just a rosy glass kaleidescope? Is it silly of me to think that you'd want to treat someone who poses for a naked website with the respect you'd treat a friend (I know wording it like that makes it seem obvious, but I'm curious if there are actually opinions to the contrary)?
I just think it's disrespectful. I know that you'd never really compliment a stranger on her body in real life (at least not without the expectation of getting slapped), but at the same time, a lot of comments are just treating the person in the photograph like a piece of meat. And it's one thing to say a set is incredible, or even that a particular body part is beautiful. I'm not a prude I don't think. But graphic statements of wanting to fuck someone or do some physical violence to them? Really? I try and be open minded about it, but I can't make myself see it as kosher.
Is it just me? I the past respectfulness of years gone by just a rosy glass kaleidescope? Is it silly of me to think that you'd want to treat someone who poses for a naked website with the respect you'd treat a friend (I know wording it like that makes it seem obvious, but I'm curious if there are actually opinions to the contrary)?
I agree with what you're discussing here as well. I don't think that makes us prudes...maybe we just see things a little differently than others (I almost see it as a generational thing, as odd as that sounds).