Ok, so this week's assignment was to give your best advice, and hell yeah I got a few.
1. Don't let anyone, EVER, treat you like less. If someone does treat you like that, they don't deserve your friendship, your love or your time. Every person deserves respect, and be treated like an equal. If that someone who treats you like crap is your special someone, redefine special, because if they do not treat you with the least amount of respect, they sure are not special at all.
2. Do what you love. Even if it doesn't give you money, don't stop doing it at all. Because doing what you love will make you happy and it will make everything else better, because you won't feel like your life is wasted in a job you hate. But doing what you like will give you something to look forward to, and eventually and with practice you will get better and you will make friends that love the same things as you do, and you will put yourself goals, and when you break those goals, you are going to feel so accomplished and happy. It's totally worth it.
3. Love yourself before you love another. The thing about this is that you gotta understand how much you are worth it, and to not settle with anything less. I have seen so many of my dear friends be with people that do not appreciate them, that don’t treat them like they should. The thing about loving yourself is that even if you don’t find that one person that treats you right and loves you the way you deserve, it’s going to be ok, because you have yourself, and you don’t need some random person at your side, just because.
4. Be with someone because you want to, not because you feel alone. What can I say, I’ve made this mistake countless times, and in the end it’s worse.
5. No matter what anyone says, you are attractive. Yup, no matter what the magazines, co-workers, exes, and some bad friends say, you are ok the way you are, and yes, there are people out there attracted towards you.
6. If you want to change, do it because of you, not for someone else.
So yeah, that’s about it. They mostly are about self-love and such, hope it helps. Any advices out there?
(that's not my cat, but it looks pretty cool, right?)
