aegiswings

PAINT BALL!!!!! Where were you for this?? I love paintball too!!!! I'm sorry to hear that you got sick. I'm actually still coughing all the time and it's hard to get rid of it. I hope you feel better

Awwwww!!! You are such a tease!!!!!!!!!
I wanna know what happens with Melissa!! I wanna know!!! -- hehehe I feel like I'm waiting for the next episode of Melrose Place or 90210 or something lol

Hahaha..your weekend is a winner!! Man..your roomie is a wild one. Maybe she is really just young or maybe she is a drunk-turned whore( trust me I have plenty of friends like that as well) but either way, she needs to be very careful(some guys don't like just to get the tease aka. just kissing or dry humping and get violent if they don't get what they want). By the way, I thought it was very interesting how you put that whole comment of her making out with strangers in one night while another guy( you) is paying for her drinks and driving around for her all night. heheheh...you know? We've talked about this before but I know you are a gentleman, but some chicks just don't deserve to be treated like a queen lol -- I'm telling you. It's nice of you to pay for her drinks, but if you guys are just roommates( regardless of your attraction to her), let the chick pay for her next time cuz that's only fair! Not that you are complaining, but definitely she reminds me of some girls I'm friends with. Fun, wild and sometimes very interesting/embarrasing to hang out with...well, it seems like you had an interesting weekend! Hey, I really think I'm getting too used to the nightqual cuz it doesn't even make me drowsy...

hello friend of derangedmichy who is now friends with me through ambrose03

i just read your entire entry and boy do i feel your pain.
girls suck....guys suck too....we ALL do.

we are all confused and dont' know what the fuck we are doing.

sometimes we do, and in that case, it should be stated, but most often we don't.

did that help? i dont' think so

here's a anyway

(that was just a friend kiss btw, since i don't know you)

so..how did it go?? Did you end up asking her out for a dinner on saturday night?

definitely talk to the cats about it -- they always know what to do lol ( well at least mine does!)

Chill out abit -- she sounds like she wants to cool out alittle bit with things (I don't know if she is busy or she thinks you are busy, etc..) Either way, DON"T SWEAT -- and IM her and chit-chat but get her to ask you out if she is acting standoffish.

haha and by the way, "kokuhaku" is such an old fashion way of asking a girl -out -- it is so refreshing to hear that word

eating a gallon of ice cream and watching a movie? you just described my typical saturday nigt! except i don't even have cats to talk to.. so i just talk to myself... or to the elves that live under my bed that try and steal my kneeecaps while i sleeep... but that's another story.
kudos to you for being assertive. now tha ball's in her court, and if she continues to be standoffish then its her freakin loss mate. now that you did it once you know you can ask somebody out, and you can do it with confidence next time you meet someone cute. it will work! right on! power to the shy people!

Ross from "Friends" happened to be my favorite out of all of the characters in the show

Eye brow piercing...hmm..cute on girls but I don't know about guys..plus, i won't mess around with your face cuz you have a nice face

Thanks for the advice derangedmichy! You are so sweet.


Its funny, but all of those "dating advice" web sites (yeah, yeah, I know what you're thinking) tell me that once you end up in "friendship" land any chance of a more-than-friends-relationship is doomed. The "ladder theory" for example, says this. It's called ladder jumping and its very hard to do. I'm not saying that I agree with any of this but, well, it confuses me.

And considering I have such a horrible dating history, I need to be more proactive. (hey, maybe its cause I use geeky words like "proactive")

hahaha you crack me up!!! "Proactive" lolol --- hey as far as the whole once you end up in the friendship land, any chance of more than friends thing is doomed..now that theory really really depends on the GUY. Among my friendship circle, there is a guy that ALL MY GIRLFRIENDS secretly want to just hook up and see how things go from there..but my friends are so afraid to take the chance because they, too, are afraid of rejection(especially we all became friends already and it's awkward...) but if this guy would be alittle more intuitive to women's needs, he would probably get laid in a secound lolol

Bah. for some reason you were on my friends list twice. When I tried to remove one of you both vanished. Be my friend again. Please?