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Monday Oct 19, 2009

Oct 19, 2009
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Call me a sellout- I ended up signing the exit agreement with my company. I did however go in and have a meeting with my bosses to discuss their reasoning behind why I was let go- a meeting that left me with few answers.

When I brought up that I had no prior warning of the problem I was let go for; was not talked to by my supervisor, and the issue was not brought up in my review, my former VP's solution was to say; "I'm not getting into this", pack up her paper work, and walk away- leaving my other former boss, and myself sitting there dumbfounded by her actions.

So I'm waiting to get a my last cheque- the one that I got if I signed their agreement, and a corrected Record of Employment (they messed up the last one) so that I can get my Employment Insurance benefits.

When that cheque clears, I am so tempted to send my VP a letter expressing my disgust at her behavior...

I am though, starting to see where I wasn't seeing the negatives of the job while I was in it. One of the big worries that had come up for me was my relationship. This job was a solid contributor of my last relationship ending (not the sole reason, but one of many reasons).

Now I am in a new relationship- with a wonderful guy that I have known for years and I don't want to screw this one up. It's long distance- he lives about 3 and a half hours away from me- and goes to school another 2 hours away from there. I was just starting to wonder what I was going to do, knowing that my job was going to keep me from seeing him for sometimes almost three weeks at a time. I guess a higher power gave me my answer.

Now I'm scouring the papers, and job sites I know of looking for work- while at the same time, researching possibilities for school. I'm going nuts. A lot of people are afraid of being unemployed- but seem to learn to relax about it- but I'm still having mini nervous breakdowns trying to figure out what to do.

Luckily wine and a hot tub in the backyard, and of course, mom, make a lot of things better.
liathach:
Don't get too worked up about it. I've been unemployed twice over the years. And, yes, it is tough. But if you just keep plugging away, doorstepping potential employers, and generally making yourself known, things work out.
AND, don't waste the time sitting at home fretting. If you've done all your cv updating, and jobseeking for the week, get out and have some fun! I spent the best part of a year walking, climbing and mountain biking in 1991!!
Oct 19, 2009
rayweeboy:
I know this isn't the sort of thing you probably want to hear, but I lost my job seven years ago and I've never been the same since. It turns you around in all sorts of ways that you don't like to admit to. I'm still here, and the world didn't end, but I've never been the same. Try to make sure that if you're not the same afterwards that the change is for the better.
Oct 20, 2009

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